How to Find a Good Wingman (Who Won't Ruin Your Chances With Women)
If you're serious about going out and meeting women, finding a good wingman isn’t just helpful—it can completely change how fast you get results.
You can find a good wingman in the Master Attraction Community:
Unfortunately, most men mess this up when they're single.
Since they don't have any good wingmen to go out meeting women with, they end up going out with a friend who doesn’t understand how to attract and pick up women, or just ends up making things awkward with the women due to him being insecure, trying too hard, or possibly getting too drunk.
As a result, both guys usually struggle to get results and miss out on being with women who would have been interested in exchanging phone numbers, kissing, or even having sex that night.
So, if you're going to go out meeting women to get laid, get a girlfriend, or find your future wife, make sure you team up with a guy who actually knows what he's doing, or is at least learning and improving.
That’s what the Master Attraction Community (MAC) is about.
Dan Bacon, the original master of attraction who picked up 100s of pretty women before settling down, has now dedicated his life to teaching men his attraction secrets.
Members of the MAC meet up in person and use Dan's tested, proven-to-work natural method of attracting women for sex, or relationships and they get amazing results.
Here are just a few of the 100s of success stories coming out of the MAC recently...
Why Most Wingmen Fail (and Drag You Down With Them)
You could be confident, funny and building attraction with your girl,but if your wingman is making mistakes, the whole interaction can collapse.
Here’s how it happens:
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He gives up too early: A woman might not show obvious interest straight away. That’s normal. Yet, if your wingman is insecure and gives up too soon if a woman isn't making her interest obvious, then he will usually lose his chance with her. She might’ve been warming up, but now she pulls back because the vibe got weird and it felt like he couldn’t handle the pressure of the moment. As a result, she assumes he is weak, or lacking confidence.
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He talks too much or too little: He either says things just to fill silences, which comes across like he’s insecure, or he barely says anything at all, which makes him seem nervous, weird, or like he doesn’t want to be there. Either way, it kills the mood for the women.
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He acts like he’s trying to win them over: It doesn’t matter what he says—if the energy behind what he is saying suggests that he is insecure or feels unworthy of the women, they will feel turned off. Even if you are confident, they may pull back because they assume you're probably the same. Alternatively, they realize that you are confident, but both of them want to meet a man that night, so they pull back and try to meet two new confident men instead, so they can stick together for the night, until they leave with a man.
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He’s too polite, hesitant, or waiting for something to happen: Women sense that he's either too wimpy, or inexperienced to know that it's totally fine for a man to be confident and move things forward with a woman. As a result, they lose interest and hope to meet some new men who will be confident enough to handle exchanging numbers, kissing, or having sex that night.
By the way...
It doesn't mean that your wingman has to be an expert at picking up women , or have tons of experience.
Yet, if he doesn’t understand the basics of attraction and isn’t trying to improve, then he’s just going to be guessing his way through the night.
What Makes a Good Wingman?
A good wingman is someone who understands the point of his role (i.e. he’s there to help both of you get results).
For example:
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He takes initiative when it matters: He doesn’t hesitate and hope that you will always do the approaching. Instead, when there's an opportunity to approach, he does it.
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He’s being social with women, rather than trying hard to pick up: He’s not putting pressure on women by trying hard to pick them up, or trying hard to impress them. Instead, he’s just being normal and social, which makes the women feel more comfortable and open around him. As a result, it's much easier to get results because the women don't have their guard up.
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He adds flirting to create a sexual vibe: Even though he's not trying hard to pick up, he's also not just being a nice friend. Instead, he adds in flirting, so there’s sexual tension, chemistry and a feeling that something could happen. Without flirting, you can end up talking to women for hours and not get anywhere, or eventually try to make a move and get rejected. Flirting is a must and Dan Bacon offers a dedicated lesson on the topic (with examples of what to say) in the Attraction Mastery video lessons.
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He helps handle her friends: If your girl’s friend is being cold, testing your confidence, or just difficult to deal with, a good wingman doesn’t ignore you and avoid giving you any help. He remains confident, helps engage the friend and helps maintain the right vibe in the interaction, so both you and him get results.
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He makes you look good: He has your back—laughs at your jokes, says good things about you, and if you mess something up, he playfully supports you instead of going quiet, or displaying body language that suggests he thinks you've ruined everything now.
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He’s serious about getting results: Even if he’s new at approaching, attracting and picking up women, he is serious about getting results by doing things the right way.
MAC wingmen are like this.
They're learning from the original master of attraction, Dan Bacon, who picked up 100s of women before settling down and now teaches men how to do the same.
So, if you want to find a good wingman, you've found the place.
It's the MAC - the best place to find a great wingman.
Why Confident Wingman Helps You Get Results
When both you and your wingman feel confident around women you're attracted to, everything becomes easier.
Dan Bacon teaches you how to be confident and believe in yourself and your worth, in the first lesson of Attraction Mastery.
Without that kind of confidence, you won't get anywhere with attractive women.
They will test your confidence by playing hard to get, not contributing much to the conversation and watching to see how you react.
Do you crumble under that bit of pressure and begin doubting yourself?
If so, they notice it in your body language and the change in your energy and vibe and they then lose interest.
On the other hand, when you have unbreakable confidence in yourself and your worth, women feel completely different about you.
They sense that you feel worthy and can handle women like them, which automatically makes them look at you as a potential lover, or boyfriend.
Likewise, even if you don't feel 100% confident, having a MAC wingman there with you who knows how to attract women, helps make you feel that little bit more confident and worthy of the women, which then makes things easier.
Yet, if you aren't feeling very confident and don't really think you're worthy of the attractive women you're talking to and your wingman feels the same way...then, damn - the women are going to sense that and want to reject you both.
If the women are unattractive, then they will usually be fine with self-doubt.
Yet, if they are attractive, then you have to believe in yourself and your value and worth to them.
When they test your confidence at certain points in the interaction (e.g. by teasing you about something, pretending to lose interest), they will be watching to see if your confidence is real.
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