How to Find a Wingman (Who Helps You Get Results With Women!)
If you’ve ever gone out with a wingman who makes things worse, you already know how important it is to find a wingman who actually helps you get results.
A good wingman makes it easier to meet women, keeps things fun, and helps you avoid the awkward moments that cause rejection or friend-zoning.
Yet, if you go out with the wrong type of guy, it can ruin interactions with quality women.
He might make things awkward, lower your value by saying or doing the wrong thing, or freeze up and leave you to carry the interaction alone. The result? You get bad results, no results, or you both get rejected because women assume you are a couple of try-hard guys using pickup tricks they’ve seen a hundred times before.
The Problem With Most Wingmen
Most guys simply don’t know how to attract women properly. They either:
- Talk too much in an attempt to impress the women, rather than making women feel the need to contribute to the conversation and impress him.
- Try to be funny, but come across as nervous, awkward and try hard.
- Use obvious pickup tricks that women see right through, which makes women play hard to get or reject both of you.
- Freeze up, not say much, stand there awkwardly and expect you to carry the conversation and do all the work.
When you walk into a venue with the intention of attracting women for sex or relationships, your wingman will either help or hurt your chances.
That's why you can’t just go out with anyone.
You need someone who knows what they’re doing, who knows how to naturally attract women, and who genuinely wants to help you succeed.
The Culture of the Master Attraction Community (MAC)
Inside the Master Attraction Community, we have a section called Find a Wingman where guys are helping each other succeed.
MAC members are serious about getting results and are improving every month.
They’re learning from the original master of attraction, Dan Bacon, who picked up 100s of women before settling down and now teaches men how to do the same.
Wingmen from the MAC have been learning Dan's proven-to-work techniques that get results—often on the first night out.
Members regularly:
- Get kisses and phone numbers within minutes of meeting women.
Sleep with women on the first night out with their wingman.
Build real momentum and improve every time they go out.
Your membership to the MAC also includes Dan Bacon AI, so if you’re ever in a tricky situation when you’re out (for example: 3 girls, but only 2 of them are interested; one wants to leave early; one likes your wingman but her friend is trying to block; your girl wants to go home with you, but your wingman’s girl wants her to stay)—you can pull out your phone, ask Dan Bacon AI what to say and do to get a result in that specific situation and you will get instant, custom advice that works.
It’s like having two decades of Dan’s attraction expertise in your pocket, or like having Dan Bacon ready to help you in any situation with a woman, 24/7.
How to Find a Wingman Who Gets It
You’ll instantly be connected with men who are actively learning how to attract women using proven techniques.
2. Post in the Find a Wingman Area

Mention your location, the nights you go out and what you're looking to achieve (e.g. overcome approach anxiety, get better at talking to and attracting women, getting to a kiss or sex on the first night, find a girlfriend or wife).
3. Go Out Together and Start Talking to Women

MAC members often warm up by talking to cashiers, baristas, or random women they pass before getting into serious interactions in a bar or nightclub. They’re not standing around overthinking—they’re talking, flirting, sparking attraction and getting results.
4. Get Results

From kisses, to sex on the first night, to a new, pretty girlfriend - MAC members are using tested methods that actually work. Results often happen the first night out for many members.
You don't need to get those results on the first night, but as long as you've been learning from Dan's Attraction Mastery video lessons, you will have some natural attraction techniques to use and you will be feeling confident and worthy of the women you talk to.
Knowing how to use some of the Attraction Mastery techniques will help you and your wingman get much better results.
Don't worry though - you don't have to be an expert to go out meeting women with a MAC member.
Instead, you've just got to understand the basics of what Dan teaches, which you will learn right away if you join Master Attraction and watch the available video lessons.
Why Untrained Wingmen Usually Hurt, Rather Than Help Your Results With Women
Random wingmen that you might find online, or through casual friends, are usually:
Insecure and nervous around women, which makes the women play hard to get and feel like rejecting you and your wingman.
Clueless about what causes attraction, which means interactions often go nowhere or are a complete waste of time and energy. When you eventually ask for a number, the woman says, "Why do you want my number?" because she's not feeling a sexual spark, or "Sorry, I just see you as a friend" because you didn't create sexual tension.
Making obvious mistakes that ruin your chances too, such as being too nice, trying too hard to impress, showing off, etc.
You might be doing everything right, but if your wingman is turning women off or saying the wrong things, the interaction will often start to feel awkward.If you then worry that you're losing the woman's interest, she notices that you're losing confidence and she then loses even more interest.
As a result, in most cases, you walk away without a result and have just wasted your time (and likely money on drinks) being out all night, without getting results.
That’s why using a wingman from the Master Attraction Community (the world's best wingman community) gives you a major advantage.
Everyone inside MAC is learning Dan's proven-to-work techniques, improving, supporting each other and getting increasingly better results.
So, when you go out meeting women with a MAC wingman, you are so much more likely to get results (e.g. phone number, kiss, or sex) on the first night you try.
From there, it just gets better and better.
Additionally, you have also just made a great friend (or friends) who are now going to support you and be there for you as you continue improving and getting better results with women.
- Attraction Mastery video lessons
- Master Attraction Community
