Why Good-Looking Guys Get Rejected by Women (Good Looking, But Can't Get Girls)

If a guy is good-looking, many other guys will assume that he gets all the girls and never gets rejected.

But good-looking guys get rejected more often than other guys realize.

I know this from having some friends who are good-looking.

Some have that square jawline or they're tall and handsome, or they're just typically good-looking guys.

I also know it from helping men over the last couple of decades.

Many guys who've come to me for help are good-looking guys, in addition to all the average-looking guys and below-average-looking guys.

Sometimes for a good-looking guy, he will see an attractive woman and she'll seem to be giving him signals that she likes him.

He may be at the gym and some girl's checking him out, or he may be at a bar or a shopping mall and a particular woman is giving him eyes.

She's checking him out and he then walks over and talks to her, but she rejects him.

She's not interested and he's thinking, "What the heck's going on?"

He's used to women reacting to him with signs of attraction because of his looks.

But when he goes over and talks to a woman that he finds attractive, they will usually reject him, and it just doesn't make sense to him.

Additionally, it can even happen to him with women who are average-looking and even below average-looking.

He walks over and he's clearly a good-looking guy, so why aren't they interested?

Why are they being weird when he starts talking to them?

It will be due to one of the four following reasons.

1. Lack of Genuine Connection

Reason number one why good-looking guys get rejected is that he feels like he doesn't need to make much of a connection because of how good-looking he is.

For most good-looking guys, they will have definitely got some results throughout their life with women who aren't that attractive.

The good-looking guy doesn't even need to do anything, but just show up and have a normal conversation.

She's going to be starstruck by his looks because she's an average-looking woman or below average-looking woman.

She's thinking about how good she will feel showing off a handsome guy to her friends.

Whatever he says, she's interested, and he's gotten those type of reactions before.

But when it comes to women that he's attracted to, or even average-looking women who are a little bit more choosy, he won't get that type of reaction.

If he just shows up and has a general chat, she will see that he's a good-looking guy, but she won't feel any depth.

Most attractive women won't be interested in that because they want to feel more of a connection with a guy.

They want to feel a spark that makes her feel drawn to him rather than him just looking good.

From her perspective, she's thinking, "Well, yeah, you're good-looking, but I'm not really feeling much."

As a result, if he asks for her phone number, she says she is not looking for a boyfriend or is not interested.

It's because he felt like he didn't really need to do much other than looking the way that he does.

2. Insecurity and Rejection Fears

The second reason why good-looking guys get rejected by women is that the woman rejects him because of her insecurities.

He didn't do anything wrong other than not making her feel reassured or calming down her insecurities.

Regardless of a woman's looks, she can actually be insecure.

If a handsome guy starts interacting with her and doesn't make her feel confident, she may behave in a weird or awkward way.

She might think he is a player or that he probably doesn't find her that attractive.

If he doesn't give her enough reassurance that he actually finds her interesting, she will start closing up.

But it's a double-edged sword, because if a good-looking guy tries too hard to make a woman feel reassured, he can end up seeming desperate.

Being too needy or too nice turns the woman off, and she rejects him because of that.

It's a fine line that a good-looking guy needs to walk.

Instead, he needs to use a charming approach where he's being attractive in his behavior while treating the woman well.

Being charming is when your behavior is attractive, such as being confident, flirtatious, or secure in your masculinity.

3. Misdiagnosing the Woman's Needs

Another reason why good-looking guys get rejected by women is that he misdiagnoses her as being insecure.

He then tries too hard to reassure her of his interest, which makes him seem like too much of a nice guy.

Sometimes a good-looking guy will misdiagnose a woman as needing reassurance when she doesn't.

She knows that she's hot and she knows that she's attractive.

She's seeing him as good-looking and she's hoping that he then just moves things forward.

But he spends a lot of time being really nice to her and trying to get to know her as a friend.

Eventually, she starts to look at him in just a friendly way, and she friend-zones him.

When he finally tries to move in for a kiss, she pushes him away and says she doesn't see him in that way.

He doesn't realize that the woman found him attractive initially and she just wanted him to get on with it.

Instead, he acted like a nice friend and hoped that eventually it would lead to something.

4. Waiting Too Long to Make a Move

The final reason why good-looking guys get rejected is that he waits too long for very clear signals of interest.

Throughout his life, people have been saying that he's handsome and that girls are going to be chasing after him.

He gets signals from women because of how he looks, and he's used to getting attention from less attractive women.

When it comes to the types of women that he really wants, he'll often wait for an obvious sign before he makes a move.

Yet, she usually won't do that, and then by the time he makes a move, the moment has passed.

The window of opportunity has been closed because she assumed he was too nervous or that there wasn't a spark.

She knows what a spark feels like and she wants to feel that with a guy she's going to have sex with.

He's checking her out and imagining having sex with her, but he's waiting too long for a signal.

To get with most women, you have to be able to make a move even when they aren't making it completely obvious.

If you are unable to do that, then you'll miss out on opportunities with women who did actually like you.

You have to be confident enough and man enough to take action when the moment is right.

If you want to be successful with women from start to finish, you've got to be able to handle each step of the process.

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