When She Rejects You, But Still Acts Interested (#1 Way to See if She Likes You)

What do you do if a woman rejected you, but she still acts interested?

I am going to give you the number one way to test to see if she actually likes you.

When you use this technique, if she does actually like you, you will be able to see it in her body language reaction.

You will be able to tell exactly where you stand.

This problem can happen if you ask a woman out and she says that she is not interested in dating right now, but still seems interested in you.

It can also happen if you try to set up a date and she says that she does not think it is a good idea.

Sometimes she acts cold, but other times she is warm, friendly, and open and even seems to be flirting with you.

Finally, another example of how this problem can happen for a guy is that she rejects you in some way, such as saying that she only sees you as a friend, but she still seems interested.

She is essentially giving you mixed signals, and you do not know what the heck is going on.

Understanding the Shades of Gray in Female Psychology

So, what is going on?

It is not black and white.

There are shades of gray to it.

Sometimes when a guy gets that type of reaction from a woman where she seems to have rejected him but is still showing interest, people around him will say she just wants your attention.

They will tell you she is playing you or stringing you along.

That is one possibility, but it is not the only one.

It can also mean that she is just playing a little bit hard to get rather than actually rejecting you.

She may be doing that to test your confidence or to test how interested you are in her.

Are you actually going to continue to pursue her if she is not making everything 100% easy?

Or are you only kind of interested in her and are only going to get with her if she makes everything really easy?

It can also mean that she is ignoring you to hopefully make you want her more.

Now, for some guys, they may feel like women should not do that.

If she is interested, she should show interest.

She should not ignore me if she is interested.

But what guys often do not remember is that they often do the same thing.

If they are trying to get a woman to want them more, they might wait a while to reply to a text.

Or if they see her in person, they might pretend that they do not see her and just walk on by.

Guys often use the same sort of approach without realizing it or maybe they just forget.

If a woman does it, they will often get annoyed by it or they will lose confidence in themselves and give up.

Yet, one of the reasons why a woman will ignore a guy is that she is hoping that he is going to want her more.

Maybe they were talking to each other and she got the sense that he did not really like her enough.

She really wanted him, but she did not want to show a lot of interest in him and put herself out there and then get rejected by him.

The Risk of Disappearing and Losing Her to Another Man

Rather than risking getting rejected by him, she starts ignoring him and hopes that if he really is interested, then he is going to walk over and talk to her.

She wants him to start an interaction and move things forward.

She wants him to reach out via text and make her feel some attraction and then set up a meetup.

The mistake guys make is thinking that because she is ignoring them, she is totally rejecting them and they have no chance.

Or the guy thinks that if she is ignoring him, then he needs to ignore her.

He hopes that if he ignores her enough and disappears from her life, she is going to come chasing after him.

But the problem with that is that if the woman is not very attracted to the guy, she will usually not go chasing after him if he starts to ignore her.

Instead, if she does not feel much attraction, she will just keep herself open to hopefully meet a guy who can make her feel some attraction and move things forward.

Alternatively, if she does actually feel attracted to the guy, but she does not want to risk getting rejected, she will often continue to ignore him when he is ignoring her.

Eventually, some other guy will talk to her.

They will get together and get into a boyfriend girlfriend relationship.

The guy who has just been ignoring her and has disappeared from her life does not get anything.

He looks on with regret as the woman that he really likes is now starting to fall in love with another guy.

His plan of ignoring her and disappearing from her life did not work because he was not able to make her feel much attraction for him.

When he disappeared from her life or started to ignore her, she did not really care.

Testing Your Confidence Through Date Requests

Finally, what may seem like a rejection from her can also be her wanting to see that you are confident enough to reattempt flirting with her.

She wants to see if you will ask her out or make a move and make something happen.

What a lot of guys do not realize is that women want a guy who is at least as confident as them, but ideally a guy who is more confident than them.

If a woman initially says maybe or I do not know to a date request, it is not always a direct rejection.

Instead, that maybe is often just a test to see if you are going to be confident enough to pursue her.

Additionally, not replying to every text is sometimes her wanting to not seem needy.

Other times it is because she has other things going on in her life and she does not feel like she needs to reply to every text.

Sometimes it might take a few days for her to reply to a text, but it does not mean that she is looking at the guy as an absolute no.

She just wants his attention and that is the only reason why she is replying to him three days later or four days later.

It can be for many reasons.

Biological Factors and Practical Reasons for Delay

Sometimes, for example, a woman may be on her period and she does not want a guy trying to arrange a date with her in the next day or so.

This is because she actually wants to kiss him and have sex with him.

If they end up going on a date, she is going to have to be rejecting him when he is trying to touch her.

So, she does not reply to him and waits for her period to finish.

But if the guy is insecure and thinks she is rejecting him or playing him, he will often mess up his opportunity.

She was actually interested in him, but there were other factors at play in terms of why she did not reply.

Now that you understand those things, here is the solution and the best way to test if she actually does like you.

The Core Strategy: Attract Her and End the Conversation Before She Does

Attract her and end the conversation first.

What usually happens is that if a guy likes a girl, he will often want to keep the conversation going as long as possible.

He is enjoying the fact that she is showing interest and he hopes that something happens now.

He hopes maybe she will suggest a date or maybe a kiss will happen if he just keeps talking to her.

If the woman senses that based on the way that he is texting or talking to her, she will realize she has to decide whether or not to give him a chance.

That reluctant sort of feeling is not how women want to feel.

A woman wants to be feeling attracted to you and feeling like she wants to get a chance with you.

She has to present herself in the most attractive and appealing way possible to get a chance with you.

One way that you can achieve that is by attracting her as you are talking to her and then end the conversation first.

If you are talking to her in person and she is feeling attracted, you may look at your watch or the time on your phone.

Essentially say to her that it has been good chatting, but you have to go and do something.

Maybe you have to go catch up with a friend or you have to go get some work done or you are going to head to the gym.

You have to do something and you end the conversation when it is going well and she is feeling attracted to you.

Reading Her Body Language for the Truth

What you will see in her body language reaction is that feeling where she is feeling like she is losing what she wants in that moment.

However, I want to point out here that it will not work if you are not making her feel attracted as you talk to her.

You need to make her feel attracted and then be the one to end the conversation first.

If you do that, you will usually get your answer in the moment because you will see that she feels like she is losing you.

Now, one thing to point out here is that some women are more confident than others.

As I said earlier, it is not black and white.

Sometimes if you end the conversation first and she is very confident, she may be totally fine about it.

She might just say, "Okay, yeah, I'll see you around."

She is not showing her cards and having that reaction where you can see that she does not want you to leave.

Instead, she is playing it cool.

Two Options for Moving Forward

You essentially have two options: give up or increase her attraction for you and reattempt.

Reattempt asking her out, reattempt moving in for a kiss, and reattempt making something happen.

If you think that her reacting in a casual way means that she is totally rejecting you, then you can decide to give up.

Alternatively, if you like her and you want something to happen, then you can decide to be man enough to interact with her again.

Make her feel more attracted to you and then reattempt shooting your shot with her.

By ending the conversation first, you are displaying attractive traits like confidence and emotional independence.

Emotional independence means that you are not needy.

Using Flirting to Create Sexual Tension

But if you are interacting with her, display other traits that make women feel attracted, such as flirting with her rather than being neutral.

Flirting creates sexual tension between you and a woman.

It is a discrete type of communication that men and women use to say that they find each other sexually attractive without actually having to say those words.

It is a subtle, discreet language.

But if you are just talking to a woman and you are being neutral with her, then that does not create sexual tension.

It is just a friendly, neutral, platonic, and often forgettable interaction.

But if you add in flirting, suddenly there are sparks.

It is an unforgettable type of interaction where she is feeling that type of way with you.

There is that private understanding between you and her that you find each other sexually attractive.

Another example is being assertive rather than being passive.

When it comes to dating and relationships, women are generally passive.

They will wait for a man to walk over and talk to them.

They will wait for a man to ask for their phone number or ask them out.

The Mistake of Being Passive Like a Woman

A mistake that a lot of guys make is that they see women being passive and they think it means she is not interested.

Or the guy thinks that if she is doing that, then he will do that, too.

If she is not starting conversations with me, I won't start conversations with her.

If she is not texting me and trying to ask me out, I am not going to text her.

The guy is essentially being passive like a woman will be.

He is hoping that the woman will be assertive and make something happen.

But women are actually waiting for the man to be assertive enough and make something happen.

Assertiveness is a non-physical trait that attracts women.

What you need to do is display attractive traits and shoot your shot.

If you can display five attractive traits, then you will be sparking attraction inside of the woman.

But if you know how to display ten or fifteen traits that trigger attraction, then they start to feel a strong, compelling, magnetic attraction towards you.

And if you are one of the guys who does not actually know how to make women feel attracted when you are interacting with them, I recommend that you start watching my attraction mastery video lesson series.

In the video series, I teach you what to say and do to display all of the non-physical traits that trigger sexual and romantic attraction inside of women.

The guys who have been learning the techniques and applying them are getting results where they are moving out of the friend zone.

They are kissing women within minutes of meeting them because the woman is feeling so attracted.

They are having sex with women on the first night.

They are getting the sort of results that guys want to get with women but cannot get because they do not know how to attract women.

These guys are learning exactly what to say and do to attract women.

If you are interested in having that type of power where you can trigger attraction inside of women anytime you want, then check out my Attraction Mastery video lesson series.