This Secret Will Get You LAID

Back when I struggled to get laid or get a girlfriend, I was making a HUGE mistake.

I thought that women would LIKE me for who I was as a person, realize that I would be suitable for them and then choose me.

Yet, they didn't.

The reason why was that I didn't know that getting results with women isn't about being LIKED.

Instead, the very FIRST step of getting results with women is to create a SPARK.

As soon as I focused on creating a spark, women were interested in me as soon as I started talking to them, or within SECONDS.

Yet, there was a problem.

With the women I really wanted (the beautiful, feminine ones that every guy wishes he could get), I was able to create an initial spark, but it didn’t last long at all.

Women would start to lose interest in me SECONDS after feeling a spark, or within a minute or two.

I assumed it was happening because I wasn't good-looking, but it wasn't that at all.

Deep down, I knew it wasn't really that either because I'd often noticed guys who weren't good-looking getting with beautiful women.

That's when I realized that there HAD TO BE more to this and I was clearly just missing a piece of the puzzle.

So, I put my mind to it and gradually began to realize that there are 3 Stages of Desire a woman goes through when she meets you.

It's not just about creating a spark.

The 3 stages are:

1. The Spark

This is where you say or do something that sparks her attraction.

You've got her attention and she's feeling a spark of desire for you.

If you don't create a spark and are just talking to her in a normal way, she won't see you as a potential lover or boyfriend.

So, you need to actively CREATE a spark based on something you say or do.

There's one exception though...

If a guy is very handsome, a woman will often feel a spark for him simply based on his looks. So, he can skip to the next step in the sequence.

However, for me and most guys out there, you have to CREATE a spark first, otherwise, you're just another random guy and she's not going to feel it for you.

When you create a spark, she instantly becomes interested and automatically begins moving on to the next stage in the 3 Stages of Desire, which is...

2. The Dynamic

This is where she decides whether or not the dynamic between you is attractive to her.

If she doesn't feel attracted to the dynamic between you and her, she loses interest and begins to close up.

If she does feel attracted to the dynamic, her interest increases and she automatically begins moving to stage 3.

Here are some examples of an unattractive dynamic:

• If a guy creates a spark by being confident, but is then unable to keep a conversation going with her because he is lost for words, then it's not an attractive dynamic, so her desire for him decreases.
• If a guy creates a spark by saying a funny line, but is then nervous and unsure of himself, it's not an attractive dynamic, so her desire for him decreases.
• If a guy creates a spark by being assertive, but then only talks to her like a neutral friend for hours rather than flirting with her to create sexual tension, then it's not an attractive dynamic, so her desire for him decreases.

On the other hand, when you create a spark and an attractive dynamic (you can do this within 30 SECONDS by the way), her desire for you increases and she then automatically moves on to the next stage of desire...

3. The WOO (Window of Opportunity)

This is where she opens up a window of opportunity for you to continue the interaction with her and move things forward (e.g. to a phone number, kiss, sex, date, relationship).

I used to fail at this step with beautiful women because I assumed they wouldn't feel real desire for me and were just being nice, or happened to be in a friendly mood.

I didn't realize they were actually opening a WOO for me and hoping I'd confidently move it forward.

So, when beautiful women noticed that I was doubting myself and feeling unworthy, the window would begin to close.

I'd then notice that they were losing interest and I would feel nervous and unsure of myself, or leave the interaction.

It was a horrible experience to be SO CLOSE to getting with beautiful women, only to have to go home alone again and wonder why it just wasn't working out for me.

Since I had no idea what was going on, I assumed that I just wasn't good-looking enough for the beautiful women to want me for real.

I assumed that if they were really attracted, they'd make it obvious and help things along to the end result.

Yet, that's not how it works.

You can't rely on women to help you through the process because women are very good at acting like they don't care if anything happens.

They have to do that to assess whether a guy is confident enough for them and interested enough to keep going, despite them not making it obvious.

When I eventually figured out what was REALLY going on in a woman's mind when a guy sparks her attraction and creates an attractive dynamic, I started acting on the WOO and as result, I began getting laid easily and consistently, even though I was just a regular guy.

Making a woman go through the 3 Stages of Desire is something that ANY man can do.

When you go through it correctly, you instantly start getting laid when meeting new women and then get endless sex when in a relationship.

If you want to experience it for yourself, watch this video to learn more