How to Tell if a Woman Wants to Sleep With You: 7 Signs
When a woman wants to sleep with you, she will rarely say that directly.
Instead, she will say some indirect things to hint at her interest.
She gives you an opportunity to realize she wants you because she doesn't want to sound too easy.
She wants you to be able to respect her as a woman.
She doesn't want to look like she is chasing sex or is too available when it comes to intimacy.
To make sure you don't misinterpret what she is saying, I am going to add context to these examples.
Sometimes a woman says these things and it doesn't mean she wants to sleep with you.
It really depends on the context and her body language.
1. She Asks What You Are Doing After This
The first example is when she asks what your plans are for the rest of the night.
What makes this a sign she wants to sleep with you is if she says it while looking at your mouth.
She might look at your mouth and then back up to your eyes a couple of times.
She might brush against you or get physically close while she asks.
If that is the case, she is not just asking about your schedule or your plans.
She is asking because she is feeling attracted and is open to something happening between you and her.
When she keeps looking at your mouth, she is likely thinking about kissing you.
2. She Says She Feels Comfortable Around You
Another example is if she says she feels so comfortable around you while getting physically closer.
She might touch your arm or even touch your chest when she says it.
Essentially, she is trying to tell you that she is open to you.
She is not going to say she wants to go back to your place and hook up.
Instead, she plays with a button on your shirt or closes the physical distance.
She is hinting at the fact that she is open to having sex with you.
She is waiting for you to pick up on those signs and feel confident enough to move things forward.
3. She Suggests Getting Out of the Venue
A very obvious sign is when she says you both should get out of there.
Some guys think she just wants to leave because she is bored of the bar or the party.
But if she is giving you a flirtatious look, she is giving you an opportunity.
She wants you to suggest going to another bar, a cafe, or back to your place to hang out.
If you do that, she feels like you are a man who gets it.
Women are not going to ask you directly if you want to hook up tonight in 99.9% of cases.
They just dangle a bit of an opportunity to see if you have the balls to take it.
4. She Questions If She Should Even Go Home
If she says it is getting late and wonders if she should even go home, she is waiting for an invitation.
She is sitting with you and waiting for you to offer her another option.
If she wanted to go home alone, she would simply say it was nice to meet you and leave.
Instead, she is testing to see if you are a man who believes in himself.
She wants to know if you can understand the subtle signals of women or if you are a bit naive.
Do not try to convince her to stay out and party more like a desperate guy.
Understand that she is communicating her sexual availability to you in an indirect way.
5. She Tells You That You Are Bad
When a woman smiles and tells you that you are "bad," she is enjoying the interaction.
She might even bite her lip or touch your chest while she says it.
What she really means is that you are making her feel sexually turned on.
You are the sort of man who makes her want to break her own rules.
She feels like she wants to have a one night stand or start dating you right away.
If you don't understand women, you might think you are coming across the wrong way.
You might try to tell her that you are actually a really good guy.
Don't do that; she says you are bad because she sees you as a guy who makes her feel turned on.
6. She Compliments Your Scent While Leaning In
Saying you smell good can just be a nice compliment, but the context matters.
If she leans in closer, breathes you in, and caresses your arm, it is an obvious sign.
She is finding you sexually attractive and thinking about sleeping with you is on her mind.
You don't necessarily need to wear cologne to get this reaction.
Sometimes a man wears a cologne a woman doesn't like and it can actually repel her.
Cologne is hit and miss, but your non-physical traits are what really matter.
If you are confident and charming, she will find another way to compliment you.
She might say she likes your shirt or laugh extra hard at your jokes because she wants you to notice her.
7. She Admits She Should Leave, But Doesn't Want To
This usually happens when a woman knows where the interaction is leading.
She knows she is feeling turned on and that you are confident enough to make a move.
She says she should leave, but doesn't want to because she wants to seem ladylike.
She wants you to respect her and see that she isn't a woman who goes out chasing sex.
She wants to stay and end up sleeping with you, but she needs you to move it forward.
If you are getting these signs from women, moving things forward is quite easy.
If you are not getting these signs, you need to start behaving in a way that triggers attraction.
You have to know how to make a woman feel feminine in comparison to your masculine approach.
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