How to Talk to Women More Confidently (It Starts With What You Do Before You Speak)
By Dan Bacon, founder of Master Attraction
You’ve probably been starting your interactions with women at a disadvantage without even realizing it.
What I’m going to teach you in this video is something very subtle that you can do that not only makes the woman feel instantly attracted to you, but it also makes her treat you better.
It makes her feel good and it makes you feel good (i.e.g. more confident, worthy, secure) at the same time.
This is something very subtle that most guys don't know about.
They don't realize that they can do this and have such a positive effect on women, while also making themselves feel more confident at the same time.
When guys don’t understand what I’m going to tell you in this video, they’ll often start off interactions with women and make a very subtle mistake that automatically turns the woman off and causes her to not treat him as well as she would, if he'd just interacted with her in a different way—if he used this subtle change that I’m going to give you in this video.
For example, when a guy starts interacting with a woman, he’ll usually have a look on his face that shows that he is unsure of himself.
Sometimes, it will be very obvious.
For example, if he starts off and he’s very obvious about how fearful he is feeling and how nervous he is, the woman can see it written all over his body language. (Watch the video at the top of this page for a demonstration).
She realizes, okay, that guy is feeling nervous.
He’s hoping that she goes easy on him, or that he’s going to get a chance, or that she’s going to like him for some reason.
He’s starting from a place where he is unsure, where he doesn’t have the sort of confidence that makes women feel attracted.
In a relationship, a man will interact with his woman and hope that she responds well.
He’ll be coming from a place of uncertainty, of self-doubt.
That will come across in his energy, his body language, how he’s talking to her, how he touches her, and so on.
It will automatically cause her to feel turned off in a subtle way, which will then cause her to react in a way that he doesn’t want.
Where she’s not being affectionate and loving.
She’s not showing the type of interest that he wants to see.
There’s a simple way to fix this.
It’s something that most guys never realize.
They never realize that they can have this sort of power.
If you just do this once, you will see how differently women treat you.
You will realize that you can actually make women feel attracted to you.
That you can influence the situation.
You don’t have to just rely on hoping that the woman is going to like you for some reason.
Hoping that you’re going to get lucky.
Something is just going to happen by magic.
“Oh she just liked me for some reason. I got lucky.”
Rather than going into interactions like that with women, which is going to cause you to feel insecure, you need to be able to do something that makes the woman feel attracted.
That something is what I call The Winner’s Smile.
The way that it works is that before you start an interaction with a woman or start talking to her, take a second to smile slightly to yourself like you already know that this is going to go well. (Watch the video at the top of this page for a demonstration).
Even if you’re nervous, this small shift in your expression makes you look more sure of yourself, makes you look more confident, and women pick up on it instantly.
Imagine that you’re going to start a conversation with a woman that you find attractive.
She’s right there.
What sort of expression are you going to have on your face?
For a lot of guys, they’re going to be doing that sort of thing.
They’re going to be a bit nervous about it.
Other guys won’t be that obvious, but they’ll have fear and anxiety inside of them.
That will be coming out in the subtleties of their body language.
They’ll walk over and they might try to hide it a bit and start talking to her.
But the woman can sense that, okay, he is unsure of himself.
He’s hoping that she goes easy on him or that she likes him or that he’s going to get a result here.
He is kind of on the back foot.
He is unsure of himself.
He isn’t a truly confident man.
She can sense that.
Yet when you use what I call the Winner Smile—where you just take a second to smile slightly to yourself before starting the interaction with her—you’ll notice that it completely changes how you feel.
You give off a more confident, self-assured energy, more approachable energy, more likable energy.
The woman then finds you so much more attractive and appealing.
For example, rather than starting a conversation—and I’ll use a very basic conversation starter such as “Hey, how are you? How’s your day going today?”—rather than just being neutral and saying, “Oh hey, how are you? How’s your day going today?”
Stop for a second and smile first.
“Hey, how are you? How’s your day going today?”
It then completely changes your energy.
You have what I call the Winner Smile.
For example, if you’ve ever seen a guy who’s about to compete in something against other people that he knows he’s going to beat, what you’ll notice is that he usually has that Winner Smile—where he knows that he’s going to beat them.
He knows that he’s going to win.
He knows that it’s going to go well.
So before you start talking to a woman for the first time, or if it’s a woman that you’re in the friend zone with, or if you sit down to have a date with a woman, or if you’re beginning an interaction with your girlfriend or wife, or if you’re about to initiate a hug—if you’re able to give yourself that Winner Smile, it’s just a very subtle smile that you just give yourself one second to do:
“Hey, how you doing? I’m Dan.”
Versus a nervous guy:
“Hey, how you doing? I’m Dan.”
Versus a guy who is being confident but is just being neutral:
“Hey, how you doing? I’m Dan.”
There’s nothing wrong with that type of conversation starter—just being confident and neutral like that.
But if you want to make the woman feel good, if you want to feel good, if you want her to instantly feel like she wants to treat you better, that things are good between you and her, that there’s a bit of a spark, that you’re approachable, you’re likable—then just give yourself that Winner Smile:
“Hey, how you doing? I’m Dan.”
It completely changes everything.
It makes you seem so much more confident, calm, centered, charismatic, approachable, likable—all of that, all at once, just by simply changing one thing.
That’s just one of so many examples I can give you of how attraction actually works.
So many guys go through life, have interactions with women and don’t get the sort of responses and reactions that they want.
They assume that, “Oh, it must mean that I’m not good-looking enough,” or “It must mean that women just don’t like guys like me. I can’t get results. I try talking to women, I try to seem confident, and they just don’t seem interested. I’m not getting the sort of responses that I see other guys get, where they start talking to a woman and the woman likes him immediately, sparks are flying between them.”
“What the heck’s going on there?”
Well, I just gave you one of so many insights that I can give you.
If you want to continue learning how to attract women and gain control over this area of your life, you should check out my Attraction Mastery video lesson series.
The guys who are learning these techniques and using them are getting amazing results.
We’re talking about men who’d never been able to pick up a woman at a bar, for example, go out and they do it the first time they try.
A guy was in the friend zone—he starts kissing the girl that he was in the friend zone with.
She immediately started to treat him differently.
Another guy had a waitress come over and give him the number of her friend.
Another guy had a woman literally hold up traffic at the traffic lights to call out her number to him.
Not that you need to do what I’m about to show you here (in the video), because I know that a lot of guys just want to be able to get one girlfriend and that’s it.
But when you use the Attraction Mastery techniques, this is what’s possible.
Members having sex with new women multiple days in a row.
It’s not just one member experiencing that—it happens very often.
Finally, other guys who are learning my techniques are getting a girlfriend.
They’re getting into a relationship with the kind of woman that they really want.
A final example here is a member who met what he said was an absolute 10.
For him, it was important that she was healthy, she didn’t drink, and that she was feminine and so on.
They’re now a couple.
What I teach you in the Attraction Mastery video lessons isn’t just something that I think might work.
It’s not a case of “Oh well, hey, maybe you can try this and maybe you might get a result.”
If you know who I am, you know that I used to be a guy who had no idea how to make women feel attracted to me.
I didn’t get it.
Women weren’t interested in me.
So I decided to set my mind on discovering the secrets of attraction—to understand how to actually attract women.
When I started to figure it out, everything began to change.
It was an immediate change for me, where suddenly women who would never be interested in me in the past were suddenly kissing me, having sex with me, getting into dating relationships with me, and becoming my girlfriend when I wanted to stop and have a girlfriend for a while.
I literally went from having no options to having too many options.
That’s what happens when you know how to make women feel attracted.
You see that when you interact with women, they actually feel attracted to you.
They actually like you and want you.
It’s not just one in 10 times or one in 20 times.
It’s pretty much every time that you interact with a woman who is single and that you find attractive, you’re able to create that spark and she actually wants you.
I enjoyed my choice of women for over ten years and then I settled down and I’ve been with the same woman ever since.
Now I share my secrets of attraction that men are using all over the world to get instant results.
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