How to Get Women to Notice You (The Secret!)

How do you get women to notice you without changing your physical appearance?

And if a guy wants to get women to notice him by changing his physical appearance, that's pretty obvious.

You just say, "Oh, yeah. Work out, build some muscle, wear great clothes, have a great haircut, get a Rolex on your wrist, or drive a Lamborghini or Ferrari, and you're good," right?

Women are going to notice you.

But how do you get women to notice you without changing your physical appearance or buying a Lamborghini?

Well, the way that it works is that women are looking at how you behave and how you react to the environment around you.

From that, a woman can tell if you're confident or nervous, self-assured or self-doubting.

She can also tell if you're comfortable with your masculinity or if you're one of the guys who are unsure if it's okay to be 'the man' or feel more powerful than a woman.

And these non-physical things are important to women.

These are things that they notice and either feel attracted to or turned off by.

Your level of confidence in a social situation—whether that be at a bar, at a party, or even in a cafe or a restaurant, just a public situation—your level of confidence and comfort is what women are noticing.

They're assessing to see how you really feel about yourself.

And if, for example, a guy has put on some great clothes and he's done his hair really well and he's been working out, but he seems uncomfortable and unsure of himself, women are going to be noticing that and they're going to be feeling turned off by it.

But if the same guy was confident and secure in his masculinity in the situation, then they will be looking at him as a man.

And if that same guy didn't have those amazing clothes on and just had jeans and a t-shirt on and had a regular haircut—just a normal, regular type of guy—and he had that type of confidence and security in his masculinity, they would be noticing him and feeling attracted to him.

Their eyes would be on him.

Yet, when it comes to women, you can't be waiting for their eyes to be on you and for them to be showing you interest and noticing you before you can feel confident.

If that's the case with you, where you need women that you find attractive to be showing you interest and giving you signals that they like you in order for you to feel confident, they notice that, too.

They notice that you're waiting.

You're waiting for the signals; you're not confident yet.

Now, the thing is, some guys can feel confident around women that they're not attracted to and not be needing any signals from them that they like him because he's thinking, "Well, these girls aren't even attractive. Of course they're going to like me. I'm better than them."

But when he's around women that he finds attractive, he is waiting for those signals because that's an attractive woman, right?

He thinks, "Does she like me?" and he's waiting to get those signals from her, and she can notice that.

She can sense it, and it doesn't make her feel attracted to him.

Likewise, if the attractive woman looks at him, she will notice that his energy suddenly changes because, in his mind, he's thinking things like, "Well, does she like me? Do I look good enough?"

And he may then start posing, and he may then start trying to stand in a cooler way and, you know, maybe check his phone and look cool.

And he's occasionally looking at her, or he's looking out of the corner of his eye, hoping that she's going to be checking him out.

And she can sense that.

She can sense that his energy has changed as a result of her looking at him and maybe even showing a bit of interest by looking at him a couple of times.

All of a sudden, he starts to feel uncomfortable and self-conscious, and she notices that and she doesn't find it attractive because women aren't attracted to insecurity and guys who doubt themselves.

So, even though, for example, he may have been going to the gym and he has a good body now, or he's wearing great clothes, or he's done his hair really well, or he may be wearing cologne and wearing great shoes, she's just not attracted because she notices that he's feeling uncomfortable with just a bit of attention from her.

So that says to her that he doesn't feel like he's good enough, that he's intimidated by her or the situation, or he's an insecure guy.

And for most women, they want to get with a guy who is at least as confident as them.

But ideally, they want to get with a guy who's more confident than them.

So, if she notices that when she looks at him, he starts to sort of fidget and become uncomfortable and be looking back and forth to see if she's interested in him, she knows that he's not a guy who's used to having women as attractive as her find him attractive, and he's most likely an insecure, self-doubting type of guy.

But if she looks at a guy who's confident and secure in his masculinity and doesn't feel intimidated by women, when she looks at him, his energy is going to remain the same.

He's going to be unfazed by it.

He's going to be able to look at her, she's looking at him, and she senses his power.

She realizes that, "Okay, that's a man."

And as a result, she feels attracted to him.

Even though he may not look perfect—he may just be wearing a t-shirt and jeans, he's not wearing any cologne, and he has a basic type of shoes on—what she's feeling is attracted.

She's feeling attracted to things about him that are difficult for a man to have around an attractive woman.

And she knows that.

It's easy for a guy who has a job to go get himself a nice shirt.

It's easy for a guy to put some gel in his hair and style it.

But it's not easy for the majority of guys to look at an attractive woman and not be thrown off by it, right?

She's looking at him, he's looking at her, and he's not uncomfortable.

His energy is not changing, and he's not starting to become insecure and self-conscious now and thinking, "Well, does she like me? Do I look good enough?"

Instead, he's confident.

He's secure in himself, and she knows it.

And as a result, she feels attracted to him, right?

She's noticing that about a guy; that is important to women.

And by the way, I have another video for you.

It's free, and I teach you how to make a woman attracted to you in 2 seconds.

This is what I call the Instant Attraction Test, because when you do it, it tests to see if the woman is attracted to you based on her reaction to you.

And if she wasn't feeling attracted to you prior to doing this test, she starts feeling attracted to you.

So, you can't lose.

Either she wasn't feeling attracted and starts feeling attracted, or she was, and she shows you that, and you know that she wants you.

If you want to watch that video, it's free and the link is in the description.

Another way that you can make a woman feel attracted to you without changing your physical appearance is to interact with other attractive women and make them feel attracted to you.

When you do that, other women in the situation can tell that the women are feeling attracted to you.

And therefore, it makes them not only notice you, but also feel more attracted to you.

This is because women use what's called "mate choice copying," where they feel more attracted to guys whom other attractive women are finding attractive.

Because if other attractive women find the guy attractive, then they have figured out that the guy is attractive, right?

They have assessed the guy and realized that he isn't intimidated, he's not an insecure guy, and he's able to trigger their feelings of attraction.

So, they are attracted to him; they're interested in him.

So the way that other women see it is that if attractive women are finding him attractive, then he must be attractive, so they then feel attracted to him.

So the reason why women do that is that female attraction works differently from male attraction in that, for women for the most part, they have to figure out if a guy is attractive.

They can look at a handsome guy and see him as physically attractive, but that doesn't mean that they're going to want to be with the guy if they start interacting with him.

They can start interacting with him, and it can turn out that he's insecure, or he's awkward, or he just doesn't know how to create a spark with a woman or create a connection, and he doesn't then get the result.

Yet, a guy who doesn't look as good as him but knows how to trigger female attraction can start interacting with her, spark her attraction, and she can start to really want him.

So, while it's great for a guy to work out and get into shape or for a guy to work on his career and try to make it in life, you don't have to wait and hope that if you do all of that, women are finally going to notice you.

Instead, just do what regular guys do all across the world where, even though they may not be the sort of guy at whom women turn their heads and look, right?

Because maybe he's a short guy, for example, or maybe he's a bit overweight, or maybe he is skinny and doesn't work out.

Even though he's not the sort of guy that women are turning their heads to look at, he can still get a girlfriend, right?

He can still get laid.

He can still get a wife.

Because the reality is that female attraction can be triggered for reasons that have nothing to do with your physical appearance.

Now, it doesn't mean that a guy should dress like a slob and just do whatever and, you know, not brush his teeth and just go up and burp in a woman's face or something like that.

But essentially, you don't need to be trying to become "pretty" and hope that women are going to notice you, right?

Hopefully, one day if I work out enough, women are going to notice me and come over to me and try to pick me up.

What most guys find who work out is that women may look at them, but they don't do anything about it.

The guy still needs to be able to walk up and talk to a woman that he finds attractive and trigger her feelings of attraction for him.

He can't just walk up to a woman and expect that because he's been working out, she's just going to throw herself at him, right?

A woman who's unattractive may do that, but attractive women aren't going to do that.

So you can become more noticed by women if you're focusing on the physical.

But you can also become more noticed by women if you're focusing on the non-physical.

And that is your confidence, your inner masculinity, how comfortable you feel when you make eye contact with a woman, and how comfortable you feel in a situation where there are women around.

This is something that I personally used to struggle with.

I used to suffer from social anxiety.

But once I figured out how to be confident and trigger female attraction, everything changed.

I went from a guy who had no options with women to having more women than I knew what to do with, to the point where I actually had to friend-zone some pretty women because I didn't have enough time to be dating all the women who were interested in me.

And that's what happens when you're able to trigger female attraction and you're not afraid to walk up and talk to a woman that you find attractive.

It's not scary when you know how to trigger female attraction because you know that women are going to feel attracted to you.

You don't wait around hoping that women are going to notice you and say, "Hey, how you doing? Can I get your number? Can I take you out sometime? You got a girlfriend?" and so on.

Instead, you just interact with women, trigger their feelings of attraction, and it's on.

That's the masculine way to do it.

The feminine way to do it is to be waiting around hoping that women are going to notice you.

So, do you want to be a masculine man who goes after what he wants or a feminine man who's standing around hoping that women are going to notice him?

Hoping they're going to come over and say, "Wow, have you got a girlfriend? Can I take you out sometime?"

It's just a fantasy.

If you want results with women, interact with them, trigger their feelings of attraction, and then it's on.