How to Get a Girlfriend if You're a Virgin
When a guy is a virgin and looking to get a girlfriend, he will often think that it's going to be more difficult for him to get a girlfriend compared to other guys because he doesn't have sexual experience with women.
What he often fails to realize is that every guy that he sees who has a girlfriend, whether the guy is younger or older, started out as a virgin.
Everyone starts out as a virgin, and it's not a problem.
Which leads me to point number one.
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Stop thinking of your virginity as a problem
Practically every woman that you will ever meet doesn't need to find out that you've had sex with a woman first in order to feel attracted to you in the moment.
Only a very small percentage of women who are all about sex and just focus on that may want to ask you about that first, and they will be put off if you haven't had sexual experience.
But pretty much every other woman is not focused on that.
Instead, the woman is focused on how you're making her feel in the moment.
So if you seem unsure of yourself or nervous about your lack of experience sexually, then that's what is turning the woman off.
She's looking at you and noticing that you don't believe in yourself.
That there seems to be something off there.
There seems to be something that you're hiding and that you're nervous and self-doubting and insecure or unsure of yourself about.
The thing is, you can feel a bit insecure about the fact that you haven't had sex with women before.
You can feel a bit unsure of yourself.
Sure, no problem.
But if you want a woman to want you in a sexual and romantic way, then you need to be able to display the traits that make her feel attracted to you.
One of those traits is to be confident around her and to believe in yourself no matter what.
I'll explain more about how to attract women later.
For now, point number two.
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Avoid the nice guy trap
If a guy hasn't had sex with women before, he will often assume that in order to get to sex with her, he has to show her that he's a really nice guy, that he has good intentions, and that he's going to treat her well.
And then she's essentially going to react in a way where she feels like, “All right, you've been good enough. Now you get to have sex.”
But it doesn't work that way.
Instead, you can make a woman feel sexually attracted to you right away.
And she can begin to have sexual feelings for you and romantic feelings for you right away based on how you're approaching the interaction.
So if you fall into the nice guy trap of just trying to be nice to her and show her that you're a good guy with good intentions, what that will do in almost all cases is put you in the friend zone.
She will see you as just a nice guy who seems like a good guy.
Yeah, great.
So reliable.
So nice.
So pleasant.
Yet that's not the thing that's going to make her want to have sex with you.
Instead, she'll just like you as a person.
Yeah, you seem very likable.
But attraction is a different thing altogether.
Additionally, women don't like it if a guy is really nice around them but they can tell that he actually likes them in a sexual or romantic way.
So if a guy is just acting like a nice guy who wants to get to know her and that's it, or a very nice guy who wouldn't ever think of having sex with her, but she can tell that he's attracted, then she starts to feel suspicious and doesn't trust him.
After all, if he's acting like he's not interested when he actually is, then what else is he hiding from her?
Why is he putting on that act?
As a result, her guard will go up and the idea of having sex or a relationship with him will feel awkward and even feel a bit wrong because it's just not flowing naturally and honestly.
Additionally, when a guy is just being nice and hoping that the woman somehow gives him a chance because of that, then it feels like she would be giving something to him.
Like she'd be doing him a favor almost.
And that's not how a woman wants to feel.
What actually works is when you make the woman feel attracted to you.
She's feeling attracted to you.
She's feeling drawn to you.
She wants to have sex or a relationship with you.
And you then either genuinely feel like you're going to let her get to have sex or a relationship with you, or you genuinely feel like you're happy to share that experience with her because both of you feel attracted to each other and want something to happen.
Now compare that to a guy who is trying to get something from her by being as nice as possible, as friendly as possible, and trying to impress her enough by being so likable as a person that she then says, “You know what? You're a really good guy. Let's have sex or have a relationship.”
But it just doesn't work that way.
Women always come across guys who don't know how to trigger their attraction.
And as a result, the guy will try to get somewhere with her by being very nice.
He hopes that by being very nice to her, she will then give him a chance.
Yet she's not looking for who will be the nicest guy to her.
Instead, she's looking to feel attracted.
When you trigger a woman's attraction for you, she automatically begins to look at you as a potential lover, boyfriend or husband.
On that note, number three.
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Display traits that naturally attract women
Attraction is a reaction to attractive traits.
So I'll give you a couple of examples to help you understand how it works.
First, with being insecure versus confident.
If a guy is insecure, he will often overthink what to say to a woman.
He will hesitate to speak freely and say what he really wants to say due to his insecurity of feeling like he's not good enough for women.
He'll be afraid to say the wrong thing and be judged negatively by a woman.
Since insecurity is instinctively unattractive to women, the woman will automatically not be feeling attracted to him in that moment.
Additionally, he might feel awkward when making eye contact with a woman because he doesn't feel confident enough that she would actually like him.
On the other hand, if a guy is confident, he will speak freely and express himself.
He won't be worried about being perfect with what he's saying.
And if he makes a mistake with something he says, he'll just laugh it off or not even worry because he is confident in his value as a guy.
As a result of his confidence, his body language will automatically seem more relaxed and self-assured.
He won't have to try to act like he has great body language.
Instead, it'll just happen automatically.
And the woman will feel sparks of attraction for him because he is displaying the attractive trait of confidence.
Additionally, because he's able to make confident eye contact with a woman, she automatically feels attracted to him because of that as well.
This is how attraction works.
It's an automatic reaction to attractive traits.
When you interact with women, you are either displaying attractive or unattractive traits.
If you display attractive traits, women automatically feel sparks of attraction for you.
And the final example here of an unattractive versus attractive trait is passive versus assertive.
If a guy is passive, then he will usually hesitate to start conversations with women that he finds attractive or even just avoid it altogether.
Instead, he will hope that women make the first move.
And he will then watch on as other guys get the girls that he wants.
On the other hand, if a guy is assertive, he doesn't wait around hoping that women will make it easy for him by talking to him first and then guiding him through the process.
Instead, he starts a conversation with a woman that he finds attractive.
And he moves things forward when he notices that she feels attracted to him and is responding well.
Essentially, him being assertive means that he asserts himself in the situation and just goes for it.
And that leads me to point number four.
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If you want to get a girlfriend when you're a virgin, stop waiting for the perfect moment and just make something happen
When a guy is a virgin or he lacks a lot of experience with women, he will often be waiting for the perfect moment or the perfect thing to say or the perfect reaction from a woman before he feels like he can make something happen.
Or he thinks, “Well look, I've got to wait until I get my body looking amazing and then women are going to like me. Or I've got to wait until I've succeeded in my career first and then I'm going to try to get a girlfriend because then they will like me.”
The guy fails to realize, to recognize, and to remember the fact that he sees all sorts of guys getting girlfriends even though the guy hasn't been working out.
The guy is only working a casual job or a part-time job or a low-paying full-time job.
He's not successful in life first.
And even if the guy is older, he's still just working a normal job and hasn't become successful.
He's still trying to make it in life, and he gets a girlfriend or gets a wife.
Even though there are other men out there who are successful, who are ripped — they've been working out at the gym consistently, they are tall, they look great to women.
Women will look at the man and say, “Yep, he's handsome, he looks good,” and he might be driving a great car.
She might look at the car and think, “Oh, he looks like a handsome, successful man,” and she might feel attracted to him.
But in almost all cases, men like that don't actually walk up and talk to women that they find attractive.
So it's not a case of, “If a guy is handsome and he's successful, then he's walking around and talking to all the women and having sex with all of them.”
Sometimes he settles down and gets a girlfriend.
But other times he continues on and he doesn't have a girlfriend.
He can't even get some sex with women that he finds attractive, because the only women that he's getting are the ones who throw themselves at him.
And those women are usually less attractive.
They're usually the unattractive women that he's not even that interested in.
Meanwhile, guys who aren't even successful in life yet, who haven't been working out, who are still trying to figure things out in life, have got themselves a nice-looking girlfriend, a pretty girlfriend, a beautiful girlfriend.
And by the way, before I give you a final point in the video, I'll mention that if you're enjoying what you're learning so far and you would like to know exactly what to say and do to display the type of traits that make women feel sexually and romantically attracted to you, then I recommend that you head over to MasterAttraction.com.
In addition to learning what to say and do to attract women sexually and romantically, you also get access to the Master Attraction community.
And you can ask for advice from fellow members.
You can even meet up with fellow members in person to go out meeting women together.
The members of my community are getting amazing results.
They're having sex with women on the first night that they meet them.
Members are having women ask to be their girlfriend after having sex.
Another member had a woman start to talk about marriage after they had sex.
And members are just getting amazing results.
They're making women feel attracted.
They're having sex with women.
And they're getting into relationships with women.
In addition to the lessons and community, you also get Dan Bacon AI.
This is the AI that I have personally trained and given thousands of examples of what to say and do, as well as how to handle all sorts of situations with women.
So you can always get the answer and solution you want right away.
For example, as a virgin, you may want to know what to say if a woman ever does ask you, “Are you a virgin?”
And if you type that into Dan Bacon AI, it will give you exactly what I would tell you if you and I were talking one-on-one.
So, point that I'll give you to help you here is that a lot of guys go through life thinking that something about them is going to be the one thing that is going to stop them from getting a girlfriend — such as the guy not being tall enough, or being a virgin, or being overweight, or not working out, or not having an amazing job.
Yet a lot of guys are going through their lives thinking that they're not going to be worthy of a woman because of their height, or because of their job, or because of their body shape.
And they're going to need to really get everything perfect in their life first before a woman will actually want them and they will be worthy of a woman.
Personally, I used to think very similarly.
I used to think that I wasn't good-looking enough.
And because I'm 5'9" in terms of height, I used to think that I just wasn't good-looking enough, tall enough.
I hadn't achieved anything in life, so why would a woman want anything to do with me?
However, when I discovered the secrets to attracting women, I saw instant results.
And I realized that almost all women didn't really care about the fact that I didn't have an amazing job or that I was driving an old Toyota Corolla.
They didn't care about that.
Instead, I realized that women were more interested in how they were feeling in the moment.
And that resulted in me being able to enjoy my choice of women for over 10 years before settling down.
So if you're a virgin and you're going through life thinking that you have to achieve a lot of things first in life before a woman will have sex with you, that's wrong.
And if you're going through life thinking that your virginity is a problem and it's going to stop you from getting a girlfriend, that's also wrong.
You've got to remember that every guy who has a girlfriend started out as a virgin.
Women have sex with men who are virgins.
If that weren't the case, no guy would have a girlfriend.
No guy would have a wife.
Every guy starts out as a virgin.
What's most important is that you're able to make the woman feel attracted.
If you make a woman feel attracted and then move things forward, you then get the result of having a girlfriend and having sex.
You're no longer a virgin.
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