How to Get a Girl to Like You Again After Messing Things Up With Her

One of the most important things that you need to understand if you want to get a girl to like you again after messing things up is that women go with how they feel.

You must understand women for the rest of your life so you are not confused by them, and that starts with realizing that how they feel can change in an instant.

An instant change in how she feels about you is possible, and I will explain a way to do that as we go through this article.

First, I will mention that guys mess things up with a woman by doing all sorts of things.

This can include being too needy on one end of the spectrum, or on the other end of the spectrum, he is playing it way too cool.

He might be acting like he is not interested in her or not contacting her, and she eventually says that he seems like he does not even care.

So, she starts dating someone else or she says that she is not interested anymore.

He may have been way too nice to her and been sucking up to her, or on the other end, he was being rude and arrogant.

But what matters now to a woman and to the situation between you and her is how you are making her feel now when you interact with her.

Are you able to make her feel differently about you now?

Has anything about you really changed, or are you still using the same type of approach or another unattractive approach that is not working?

For example, where a lot of guys will go wrong when they mess things up with a girl is that he will try to convince her to give him a chance.

He might turn into a really nice guy and hope that she will take pity on him.

Alternatively, he might not contact her for weeks or months and hope that she will care and come running back, but she does not.

She just moves on with her life because he was not actually making her feel attracted.

Finally, he might play it cool and act like he does not care when he sees her in person, but she will pick up on that if it is not genuine.

Now, if it is genuine and the guy does not really care and he is confident, it will make her feel attracted.

She will feel like she is being rejected and left behind if other women are talking to him and they seem interested.

What the Naturals Do

So, let us get on to what you need to do if you have messed things up with a girl and you want her to like you again.

What you need to do is what the naturals do and what guys like me do.

I was a guy in the past who did not know how to make women feel attracted, and I would mess things up.

But I figured out how to actually make women feel attracted, and eventually, it became totally natural for me.

A guy who is a natural with women, when he does something that is not attractive, he does not see it as though he has messed things up and no longer has a chance.

Instead, he looks at it as though he probably should not have done that, but everything is fine.

He will just talk to her again, make her feel attracted, and he will move things forward.

She is going to respond with attraction to that because of his confidence and the fact that he is so courageous and does not crumble under the pressure.

He does not feel like there is no way this girl is going to like him because he behaved in a bit of a needy way.

When you interact with her now, how do you make her feel?

If you interact with her and you make her feel attracted, she will instantly change how she feels with you.

It will be an instant change where she feels like there is a bit of sexual tension building between you.

She starts to experience that right away based on you behaving in an attractive way.

The Hidden Reaction

The way that it works is that attraction is a reaction to attractive traits.

So when you display attractive traits, women feel attracted.

But the problem is if it is a girl that you have messed things up with, she will often not want to show you right away that she is feeling attracted.

Women and girls are really good at acting like they are not interested even when they are.

So, you have got to be able to do what a natural will do and look at the situation and believe that it is fine.

If she plays a little bit hard to get because she is not sure if she wants to show you that she likes you again yet, you just remain confident.

Rather than thinking that it is impossible to make her feel attracted to you again, you must remain courageous.

If you saw her in person right now, would you be feeling tense and unsure of yourself?

Or are you going to be able to go over there and be confident, make her feel attracted, and move things forward?

If you are able to go over there and be confident, then you are good.

But if you do not feel like you are going to be able to be confident, then you need to fix this area for yourself.

If you do not fix the mindsets behind it, you are always going to have this confidence issue.

Mindsets of Success

Rather than having an insecure mindset of thinking there is no way she is going to feel attracted again, you need a confident mindset.

You should think that she liked you before, so she can like you again.

With the insecure mindset, you will probably avoid her out of fear of getting rejected, and she might just move on without you.

Alternatively, if you happen to see her in person, you will seem nervous and unsure of yourself, which will turn her off even more.

Yet, with the confident mindset, you are much more likely to give yourself another chance to contact her or walk over to her.

You will be behaving in a much more attractive way when you believe in yourself.

You have got to become confident as a man and not be going through your life feeling insecure and controlled by your fears.

Just remember that how quick a woman's feelings for you can change when you are interacting with her in an attractive way.

Because attraction is a reaction to attractive traits.

If you are interacting with this girl and you are displaying unattractive traits such as being needy or insecure, then it is not going to get her to like you again.

But if you are displaying traits that actually make women feel attracted, then she is going to feel attracted to you.

She may not tell you that or really make it obvious, but you have got to remember what the naturals do.

Just talk to her in a confident way, make her feel attracted, and move things forward.

If you messed things up with her, then it is highly likely that at some point she liked you and felt attracted to you.

She may have gone on to feel disappointed that it did not work out, but it does not mean that she cannot ever feel attracted to you again.

Instead, women go with how they feel, and how they feel can change in an instant.

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