How to Flirt With Women: 4 Non-Creepy Examples That Actually Work

Flirting allows you and a woman to instantly and discreetly communicate your sexual interest in each other.

It gets rid of all the games that normally go on between a man and a woman where they do not know if the other actually likes them in that way.

When you do not flirt, you often end up playing hard to get or doing things that get in the way of things flowing naturally.

With flirting, it becomes obvious for both you and her that it is on.

Flirting is something that pretty much all women know how to do, but most men do not know how to do it effectively.

What will often happen is that a woman will be flirting with a man, and he won't even know it.

He won't know that she finds him sexually attractive and that she is interested in him.

In this article, I will explain where guys go wrong when attempting to flirt, the right way to do it, and the best way to approach it to fix rookie mistakes.

Common Rookie Flirting Mistakes

The first rookie mistake that guys make is flirting with hesitation or visible nervousness.

He has a fear that his flirting will be unwelcomed, and as a result, he starts displaying insecurity and fear that turns the woman off.

Women love to be flirted with when you do it in the right way, because it creates sexual tension between you and the woman.

If you do it with visible nervousness, the woman senses fear, self-doubt, and emotional weakness, which are not attractive traits.

Another rookie mistake is apologizing mid-flirt or immediately after saying something bold.

He says something flirtatious and then says, "Sorry, I probably shouldn't have said that," or, "I hope you don't take this the wrong way."

The woman then senses his self-doubt and his lack of social intelligence, seeing him as a bit naive or "wet behind the ears."

She may also sense that he lacks sexual confidence, which suggests he might be hesitant in the bedroom later on.

A final mistake is needing to get a specific flirtatious response or reaction from her to feel okay about yourself.

If she senses that you are waiting and hoping for her to flirt back to validate you, she senses neediness and insecurity.

Recognizing Subtle Flirting Cues

Most women know how to flirt, but their signals are often very subtle rather than obvious statements of desire.

A common example is a woman sitting on a sofa with a guy, and she might touch him on his leg or playfully tap him on the arm.

Many men talk themselves out of this being a signal, thinking she is just "touchy-feely" or just sees them as a friend.

He continues to talk to her in a neutral way, and because he doesn't notice the signals, her attraction starts to decrease.

She might even start playing hard to get because she feels insecure and wonders if the guy actually likes her.

If a guy is confident, he sees that touch as her showing him that she is comfortable with physical contact.

He can then flirt back by touching her on the leg when she says something funny or giving her a playful push.

By responding to her touch, he is communicating that he understands what is really going on in the moment.

How to Flirt the Right Way

The right way to flirt with women is without needing anything in return.

You must be so confident in yourself that you can put it out there and not need an excited reaction to feel good.

She feels attracted to your confidence because you are an emotionally independent man who feels good regardless of how others behave.

Women are attracted to emotional strength and turned off by emotional weakness.

You should also flirt while owning your words and your body language without ever apologizing for your interest.

When you respond to her subtle cues, it becomes a private, discreet understanding between you and her that it is on.

This gets rid of the need for her to play hard to get, because it is already understood that you find each other sexually attractive.

It is not necessarily just about what you say, but the energy and the vibe behind what you are saying.

Examples of Flirtatious Lines That Work

A classic example that works for beginners and masters alike is to playfully challenge the woman's role in the pursuit.

If you are interacting and it is obvious she likes you, say, "So, where are you taking me on our first date?"

This playfully challenges her, makes her laugh, and shifts the conversation toward the idea of you and her being together.

If she really likes you, she will usually play along or tease you back, allowing the interaction to progress.

Another example is how to handle a compliment, such as her saying she likes your shirt.

Instead of just saying "thank you," you can say, "Yeah, and you're cute, so what should we do about it?"

If you say this with confidence, charm, and presence, it creates instant sexual tension.

If you say it with nervousness, it sounds like a cry for help or a plea for her to take pity on you.

You must have "secure masculinity," where you are not ashamed to show up in the moment as a man who is interested in a woman.

Handling the "Test" Questions

Women will often challenge a guy to see if he is confident enough to handle her.

She might ask, "Do you say that to every girl?" or, "Do you say that to all the girls?"

Most men panic, start to doubt themselves, and try to explain themselves or apologize.

She senses the nervousness and realizes he cannot handle a bit of pressure, which makes him look emotionally weak.

A flirtatious way to respond to that challenge is to say, "Only the ones I want to see again."

This shows her that you find her attractive, you want to see her again, and you are not panicking under the pressure of her question.

You are expressing your sexual interest with courage and balls, which is incredibly attractive to women.

She feels attracted to your secure masculinity and the fact that you are not apologetic for being a man.

Moving Toward Mastery

Flirting can help you get a girlfriend, get laid, or even keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship.

Eventually, you can get to a level where you can flirt without even saying anything at all.

It becomes about your energy, your body language, and the specific way that you are looking at her.

However, you do not need to be at that mastery level right away to see massive results in your dating life.

As long as you are displaying attractive non-physical traits like confidence, your flirting will be welcomed.

Stop being the guy who just has "nice" conversations that lead nowhere and start creating a sexual spark.

The more you use flirting, the easier it becomes to get to kissing and sex with the women you meet.

Take the lead and show her that you are a man who is comfortable with his own desire.

When you master this, you will never have to worry about a woman losing interest because the "vibe" was too neutral.

You have the power to change the dynamic of any interaction the moment you decide to start flirting.

Take the first step and start practicing these techniques with the next woman you talk to.

Success is waiting for the man who is bold enough to go after what he wants.

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