How to Quickly Become the Man Women Want (This is What Works!)
Most guys think the men who sleep with attractive women must be taller, better looking, richer or somehow more naturally gifted than everyone else.
In reality, that's rarely the reason.
Over the years, I've worked with thousands of men and one pattern has become impossible to ignore.
The guys who consistently succeed with women aren't necessarily the most physically attractive.
They're the guys who understand how female attraction actually works.
For example: One of the biggest mistakes men make is assuming that if a woman doesn't show obvious interest within the first few moments of meeting them, she's rejecting them.
It's an understandable mistake.
Almost every guy has experienced those rare occasions where he starts talking to a woman and she immediately likes him, without him having to do anything to spark her attraction.
The conversation flows effortlessly, she smiles, laughs and makes it obvious she's interested.
The problem is that many men begin to believe that's how attraction is supposed to work every time.
So, when they meet an attractive woman who seems neutral, reserved or even a little difficult to read, they immediately assume they have no chance, or assume they are being rejected.
Then, they either walk away or assume that they just aren't her type and give up on trying to get anywhere with her.
That's where they lose.
The reality is that attraction often develops during the interaction, not before it.
Yes, some women will immediately find a man physically attractive before an interaction.
That is true.
So, if he's naturally handsome, tall or has the sort of appearance that she likes, then she'll feel some attraction for him before he even says a word.
Yet, that's not how the majority of men succeed with women.
Most everyday guys attract women in ways that have nothing to do with their physical appearance.
They make women feel attracted to their confidence.
Their humor.
Their charm.
Their emotional strength.
Their masculinity.
Their social intelligence.
Those qualities aren't about a guy's physical appearance.
Instead, they are qualities that have to be experienced during an interaction.
That's why it's a big mistake to assume you're being rejected simply because a woman isn't immediately showing obvious interest.
Sometimes she's simply getting to know you.
Sometimes she's naturally reserved.
Sometimes she's testing your confidence to see whether you're the kind of man who falls apart the moment he doesn't receive her approval, or reassurance.
If you remain relaxed, continue the conversation and spark more of her attraction during the interaction, her level of desire for you can change surprisingly quickly.
I've seen it happen countless times.
Recently, one of the members of my community shared a success story that reminded me of this.
He was a virgin until the age of 23 and then went through a long period without much success.
Recently, however, he'd slept with 4 different women in a relatively short period of time and kissed several others, including women he considered very attractive.
One thing stood out.
He mentioned that some of the attractive women didn't seem interested at first.
Years ago, he would have interpreted that as rejection.
Yet, now he understands that initial neutrality from a woman doesn't mean that the opportunity is over.
That mindset has completely changed his results with women.
Another lesson from his story is that success with women isn't something you're born with.
Far too many men believe that because they've struggled in the past, it's simply who they are and who they are destined to be.
They think they've been rejected too many times.
They think they've missed their chance.
They think that other men were born with something they don't have, or can't have.
That's not what I've found by helping thousands of men though.
The real difference is that some men understand how female attraction works and others don't.
Once you understand how to trigger attraction inside a woman, everything changes.
You're no longer relying on luck and hoping that every woman you meet immediately likes you.
Instead, you know how to create attraction during the interaction.
As your experience grows, your confidence becomes genuine because it's based on repeated success.
You're no longer wondering whether a woman might like you.
Instead, you know for sure that you're capable of making attractive women feel attracted to you easily because you've done it before.
That confidence then comes with you into every new interaction.
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