How to Attract Women With Your Body Language (Examples)
By Dan Bacon, founder of Master Attraction
When it comes to attraction, your body language is so much more important to a woman than her body language is going to be for you.
When most guys interact with a woman, she can make some of the mistakes that I'm pointing out in this video—or all of the mistakes—and they're not going to care.
They’re still going to like her anyway.
But if a guy makes the following mistakes that I’ll point out—and I’ll show you the right way to do it instead—then the woman will lose interest.
Because women are more interested in what’s going on on the inside for you.
And what’s going on on the inside will come out on the outside in your body language.
You can’t hide it.
You can’t turn it off.
What you’re feeling on the inside will be revealed based on how you’re using your body, how you’re moving and how you’re reacting to things.
And when you get your body language right, it’s very easy to make women feel attracted to you.
Women feel that instinctive attraction.
They sense your strength.
They sense your confidence.
They respect you because of it, and they feel drawn to you.
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Turn your head fully when looking at her
Imagine that you’re sitting in a café having a coffee, and there’s a pretty woman over there.
How are you going to look at her in a way that’s going to make her feel attracted to you based on your body language?
A mistake that most guys make is that they’ll either be sitting there having a coffee and sort of looking like that—peeking out of the corner of their eye.
They want to get a sneak peek, get a look at her and not be caught.
Or the guy will look past her, so he then gets to look out of the corner of his eye and then look back again at his coffee.
So he’s sneaking a peek.
And women can pick up on this.
They’re very good at picking up when they’re being looked at by a man.
They’re very good at sensing the subtleties of men’s body language.
They know what that sort of “look past” look means.
So if you want to attract her with your body language in that moment, understand that women are not attracted to fear.
They’re not attracted to insecurity.
They’re not attracted to self-doubt.
They’re not attracted to men who are timid.
They’re attracted to men who are confident.
If you’re a confident guy, you’re going to be able to turn your head fully when you look at her and not be afraid.
And then, for example, return to your coffee.
Or if you’re talking to a friend in a bar, you’ll be talking to your friend, and then you’ll turn, you’ll have a look at a woman, and you’ll turn back and continue talking.
You won’t be looking at her in a fearful way, worried that you’re going to get busted.
You won’t be looking sort of scanning back and forth to get a peek.
Instead, you’ll be confident enough to look at her, and then continue talking to your friend, and not be afraid.
Now, there’s an important distinction to make here.
Women are not attracted to men who glare at them or stare in a creepy way.
Women also encounter men who stare at them and glare, and that’s obviously not attractive.
It’s not a creepy, lingering “I’m going to keep looking at you even if it makes you uncomfortable” sort of stare.
Instead, a man who’s confident and not going to make her feel uncomfortable will calmly just turn his head, have a look at her, and then continue on.
If a guy is confident and he’s able to turn his head and look at her, that makes her feel attracted.
Now she’s being looked at by a confident man.
He’s not trying to sneak a look because he’s worried about being caught.
He’s a confident man who believes in himself.
He’s used to women finding him attractive.
He’s not trying to get anything from her in the moment.
He’s not looking at her, thinking, “Okay, now show me interest.”
He’s just confident enough to look at her and return to what he was doing.
And she will feel that.
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Confidently scan her up and down with your eyes and then settle without flinching or correcting
When most guys are interacting with a woman they find attractive, they’re afraid to look her up and down.
They worry it might seem too forward, make her uncomfortable, or seem like they’re checking out her body too obviously.
But what it actually does for the woman—when done correctly—is make her feel like she’s under the spotlight of a masculine man’s attention.
She’s in the presence of a man who isn’t intimidated by her.
He’s not being sleazy or creepy.
He’s not doing that sort of exaggerated, obvious scanning.
Instead, a confident man may be talking to her and glance at her hair, then scan her up and down briefly as he continues talking.
And he doesn’t have to do it continually throughout the interaction.
If he does it once, it’s enough.
What it creates inside of her is a feeling of being girly and feminine in the presence of a man who’s confident.
But if a guy does it with insecurity, it turns her off.
He might dart his eyes around nervously, look away, or fidget after doing it.
He’ll worry about what she’s thinking, and she’ll sense it.
She won’t want to be looked at like that by a man she isn’t attracted to—especially if he’s insecure.
And she definitely won’t want to be looked at by a guy who’s being creepy.
But when it’s a confident, masculine man, who looks her up and down once without correcting or flinching, then returns to eye contact calmly, she feels like she’s in the presence of a real man.
And that makes her feel attracted.
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Make minimal adjustments when she enters your space
If an insecure or needy guy is talking to a woman and she gets closer because it’s loud or crowded, he might get overly excited.
He’ll fidget.
He might smile too much.
He might start adjusting his posture and get visibly thrilled that a woman is touching him or getting close.
She’ll pick up on it and feel turned off because it seems unusual for him to have a woman like her in his personal space.
On the flip side, a guy trying too hard to act unaffected might just freeze and remain stiff.
That also seems unnatural.
It reveals insecurity masked as fake confidence.
But a man who’s truly confident won’t do either.
He’ll make subtle, minimal adjustments.
Maybe he moves his head slightly to hear her better.
Maybe he turns just a little.
He doesn’t fidget or overreact.
She then senses that she can comfortably be in his space without things becoming awkward.
She feels more feminine and relaxed.
And he remains the more emotionally grounded one.
That creates attraction.
Many guys grow into their masculinity much later in life.
You may have seen it at school or university—some guys naturally embraced being masculine and were more confident around women.
Girls respected and felt attracted to those guys.
They stood out.
Meanwhile, other guys feared being manly or thought they had to act sweet, neutral, or overly polite.
But a man who embraces his masculinity and expresses it in his body language stands out.
And women feel it.
They respect it.
They’re attracted to it.
Some guys go through life feeling ashamed of their masculinity.
They feel like it's wrong to be manly around a woman.
So they either try to act like her, become overly nice, or go completely neutral.
But then another guy enters the interaction—one who’s relaxed in his masculinity—and women instantly feel more attracted to him.
They respect him more.
They feel more feminine around him.
And he doesn’t need to do anything extra.
He’s not putting on a show or trying hard.
He’s just being a confident man who’s grown into his masculinity.
For example, he’s not ashamed to feel attracted to a woman.
He doesn’t try to hide it.
He can look at her without being afraid.
And women like that.
They don’t want to be glared at or stared down by a guy being creepy.
But they do want to be looked at by a confident man who’s not scared of his own desire.
There’s a big difference.
One is uncomfortable.
The other is attractive.
The confident man doesn’t try to suppress his masculinity.
He knows there’s nothing wrong with being a man.
In fact, everything about it is right.
Women feel more attracted to you when you embrace your masculinity.
Men respect you more.
You feel better about yourself.
And women want to be around that.
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There’s a community here too, but you never have to post if you don’t want to.
It’s not the kind of community where you join and are told to “introduce yourself” or anything like that.
You can remain completely anonymous if you prefer.
But if you want to post and get support, or meet up with other guys to go out and meet women in person, you can do that as well.
And as you’ll see from the success stories posted inside, guys are getting amazing results when they actually apply what I teach.
That’s the key—understanding something is one thing.
But applying it to a real interaction is where the results come from.
When you apply what I teach, women instantly feel more attracted to you.
The attraction happens right away.
You’ll instantly be more attractive to women than before.
And once you start doing it, it feels automatic.
You don’t have to try hard anymore.
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