How to Attract Women Naturally (5 Things to Say That Turn Women On)
Most guys think that turning a woman on requires winning the lottery or being born with "one in 100 million" luck.
While being a very rich man is obviously attractive, the reality is that you can make 99% of women feel turned on by displaying specific non-physical traits and behaviors.
When you understand how to naturally attract women with who you are right now, you become more socially and emotionally competent.
This doesn't just help you with girls; it often leads to promotions at work and better results in every area of your life.
Below are four tested examples of what you can say to create sexual tension and flip the script on the typical dating dynamic.
1. Say "No" (When She is Being Playfully Unreasonable)
Most guys look at an attractive woman and feel they have to agree with everything she says just to get a chance with her. They become "pushovers" with no challenge.
Women, especially pretty girls, will playfully push your boundaries to see if you have a backbone. When she is being playfully unreasonable, have the confidence and emotional independence to say, "No, how about that?"
By adding "how about that?" you show her that you are being playfully challenging. It creates a "playful obstacle," which is the key to building sexual tension. You aren't being a "prick" or getting triggered; you're showing her you aren't a walk in the park.
2. "Just because you're being nice to me, it doesn't mean you get to sleep with me tonight."
When a woman is being unusually sweet or agreeable, most guys copy that behavior and become "extra nice" back. This usually leads to boredom and a dead spark.
If you say, "Just because you're being nice to me, it doesn't mean you get to sleep with me tonight," you flip the expected roles. Usually, the man is the one chasing sex. By playfully suggesting that she is the one trying to win you over, you demonstrate:
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Social Intelligence: You know how the "game" usually works.
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Non-Needing: You aren't desperate for a result.
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Authority: You put yourself in the position of the "selector."
3. "You're flirting with me. That's cute."
Many men are "blind" to a woman's flirting because women often flirt in subtle, anxious ways to avoid rejection. They might just give you three compliments in a row.
Calling it out by saying, "You're flirting with me. That's cute," shows you are one step ahead. It demonstrates that you have the confidence to acknowledge the sexual attraction in the room. Confidence triggers an automatic, natural attraction in women. When you acknowledge her interest and call it "cute," she feels excited that you "get it," and she starts to feel even more turned on.
4. "Say Please"
When a woman asks for a sip of your drink, your jacket, or help with something, don't just immediately give in and be her "savior." While there is nothing wrong with being a good guy, you want to put a playful obstacle in the way to keep the tension alive.
Confidently and playfully telling her to "Say please" allows her to feel your authority in a fun, loving way. Women feel turned on when they feel they want to submit to a man's lead. It shows you are in the "one-up" position rather than just being a neutral "equal" or a friend.
Master the Art of Natural Attraction
Attraction isn't a mystery; it's a reaction to attractive traits. When you stop guessing and start displaying the behaviors that women are biologically wired to respond to, the results are life-changing.
Ready to stop "hoping" to get lucky? Learn the specific mindsets and non-physical traits that make women feel drawn to you instantly.
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