How to Approach a Girl You Like (The Next Step Secret)
There is a way to instantly get better results with women, whether you are currently single or in a relationship.
What I’m going to teach you here is something that applies throughout your entire life.
To help you understand it, I want to share a story from a member of my community who recently ended up sleeping with a woman he just met, despite having a woman cancel a date with him earlier that same night.
The difference between him sitting at home wallowing in rejection and having a great night resulted from one simple realization: You are often just one small act away from changing your night, your feelings, and your life.
The Secret: Take the Next Step in an Attractive Way
Most guys think that "putting yourself out there" is enough.
It isn’t.
If you walk over to a pretty girl and say, "Oh, hi... do you mind if I sit here? I noticed no one is sitting here," in a nice guy kind of way, then you are taking a step, but you are doing it in an unattractive way.
You are being soft and hoping she goes easy on you.
To stop being nervous around pretty girls, you have to commit to taking the next step in an attractive way. This means:
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Approaching with Courage: You don’t have to feel 100% confident. The member I talked about in the video forced himself to "act the part." From the woman's perspective, that looks like masculinity and balls.
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Flipping the Script: If a woman asks you to do something (like buy her a drink), don't just do it hoping she’ll like you. Flip it around. Make her feel attracted in the moment, so she realizes you aren't a guy she can just "toll" or use.
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Texting with Intent: If you get a girl's number, don't just send a basic, neutral text. Send something that makes her laugh and smile. When she feels attraction through the phone, she’ll say "yes" to the date immediately.
Why Quality Women Wait for You to Approach
You might see a beautiful woman sitting by herself and wonder why she isn't talking to anyone.
Think about it from her perspective: pretty much every man in the room wants to have sex with her.
If she goes around approaching guys, she might end up with a guy who isn't confident or a guy who doesn't even really like her.
She waits for a man who has the confidence and the social intelligence to come over and introduce himself properly.
When you walk up and say, "I keep noticing you around here and I thought I’d come over and introduce myself," she sees you as a charming, charismatic man.
Height, Money, and the "Insecurity" Trap
One of the guys in my community is 5'8" and lives in a country where the average height is much taller.
He used to think his height was a massive problem, until he learned how to handle himself. He recently had a young, beautiful woman who was taller than him approach him.
He didn't get results because he was tall or rich; he got results because he was confident and assertive.
Men respect men who believe in themselves, and women find that emotional strength naturally attractive.
The Reality of Female Attraction
Women are wired to feel naturally attracted to emotional strength and turned off by emotional weakness.
Most men don't understand this because men will feel attracted to a woman regardless of whether she is confident or shy.
But for a woman, she needs to see that you can handle yourself as a man.
She wants a potential leader and protector.
If you are interacting with your girlfriend or wife and you are pleading, needy, or frustrated, she sees weakness.
If you take the next step in an attractive way, by being assertive and displaying emotional masculinity, she will start to respect you and appreciate you automatically. You won't even have to ask her to do it.
Stop Guessing and Start Leading
You are not "doomed" to fail with women.
It is not your fate to be rejected or friend-zoned.
You will instantly start getting better results the moment you stop being passive and start taking the next step in an attractive way.
Ready to master the non-physical traits that trigger natural attraction?
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