8 Reasons Why Attractive Women Date Unattractive Men

One of the biggest mistakes guys make with women is thinking that they need to be a woman's perfect guy in order to be accepted by her.

But that's not how it works at all.

In this article, I'm going to explain eight different reasons why women say yes to imperfect men.

As well as why women accept men who aren't perfect and then happily get into a relationship with them.

They literally fall in love with the guy.

1. The Prince Charming Myth

Reason number one, most women don't truly believe that they'll end up with a Prince Charming or a rich, handsome man.

So, they just go with how they feel in the moment, right?

If a guy is making her feel attracted by being confident, charming, or charismatic, many women will go along with it and happily get into a relationship with him.

Yet, if you ask a woman what sort of guy she wants and what sort of guy she'll accept, she usually won't say that.

Instead, she'll list off a whole bunch of things like tall, handsome, and rich.

But the chances of that happening are slim to none for most women.

Most women secretly believe that they're going to end up with a guy who is able to make them feel attracted, but he doesn't actually have to be perfect.

He may have some imperfections that she either doesn't care about or ends up seeing as endearing and cute.

For example, he may have a big nose or big ears, and she ends up seeing it as attractive because it's him.

2. Emotional Response vs. Theoretical Ideas

The next reason why women say yes to imperfect men is that women trust their emotional response more than a theoretical idea of who they should be with.

They trust their own emotional response and intuition.

If a guy isn't perfect-looking, but he has good intentions and makes her feel attracted, she will be happy to overlook those imperfections.

He might be confident, assertive, or have a sexual vibe that makes her feel girly around him.

Any type of non-physical trait like that can attract women.

She goes with how she feels, because she trusts her emotional response to something more than what anyone else may say.

Someone else may say, "But hey, he's a bit overweight," but she doesn't care.

She feels attracted to him and she really likes him, so she goes with it.

3. The Power of Immediate Connection

Another reason why many women accept imperfect men is that women choose a man based on the connection they feel with him now.

From the woman's perspective, it's a much safer bet for her to get with a guy who she's feeling a connection with in the moment.

Rather than thinking that a Prince Charming may come along one day, she focuses on what is real.

If she has an opportunity right now and the connection feels good, she thinks, "All right, let's just go with this."

She may never meet a guy who is rich and successful and interested in her.

So, she trusts the connection that she is feeling with you in the moment.

4. Less Pressure to Be Perfect

Imperfect men are less likely to make a woman feel like she needs to be perfect.

If a guy puts a lot of effort into looking great and everything seems impeccable and perfect, it can make a woman feel insecure.

She feels like if she got into a relationship with him, there is going to be a lot of pressure on her to live up to his expectations.

She thinks he will expect her to level up her fashion game and always be looking beautiful, otherwise he's going to pressure her.

Whereas if she gets with a guy who is imperfect, she feels like there is going to be less pressure being with him.

He probably looks at her as being attractive and appreciates her because he's not extremely serious about that sort of thing.

As a result, she feels like that would be a better relationship for her in terms of not feeling insecure or picked on.

5. Clear Interest and Genuine Connection

Imperfect men tend to be clearer about their interest.

A good-looking guy will sometimes feel like he doesn't need to put much effort into creating a connection because of how he looks.

If he comes across a woman who's attractive and he's not putting much effort into showing interest in her as a person, she can feel like the connection isn't that enjoyable.

Yet, if a guy is imperfect, he's often going to be the sort of guy who is showing some interest in her.

If he's being confident and easygoing about how he's showing interest, she's going to feel like he's interested but not desperate.

A guy who is perfect will often be waiting for the woman to hit on him, because he feels like he deserves it.

But what the woman is wanting is a guy who actually finds her attractive and is interested in her.

6. High-Value Men Can Be Intimidating

A guy who is rich, handsome, and wanted by other women is scary to some women.

Many women are scared of the idea of getting with a handsome guy who's rich because they worry other women will constantly try to get his attention.

If she ends up getting into a relationship with him, she worries he may end up cheating on her and breaking her heart.

So, she feels like it's a much safer bet to get with a guy who is making her feel attracted, but isn't actually perfect.

She won't have to worry as much about him expecting her to be perfect every single day.

She trusts her emotional response where she's feeling drawn to him, and she feels like she's going to be able to keep that relationship together.

7. Dropping the Guard for True Love

A man who is confident, genuine, and imperfect feels like someone she can drop her guard with.

She feels like she can open up and actually fall in love with him without having to worry as much about if it will end.

This leads to a better relationship experience for her where they both experience true love together.

She isn't constantly on guard worrying that he will find another woman attractive or dump her.

Instead, she can be more openhearted and drop her guard to experience the love.

It is much more enjoyable for her.

8. Most Guys Don't Even Try

Finally, another reason is that most guys don't even try.

Most guys just look at attractive women and they just think, "Well, I'm not good enough."

They think they have to be her perfect guy to get with her, so they don't even attempt it.

But I have members in my community who are 5'3 or have a lazy eye, yet they are getting with attractive women.

They are getting with women because they actually talk to them and create a spark.

Most guys just work on their career or their body and hope that one day women will pick them.

But if you are an average-looking guy, you know that doesn't work.

Instead, you actually have to talk to women to make something happen.

An attractive woman wants to see that a guy has the confidence to talk to her and can actually create a connection that feels good.

If you are ready to stop waiting for luck and want to know exactly how to make a woman feel an intense spark of attraction for you, there is a simple process you can follow.

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