7 Things a Man Should Never Do For a Woman
As a man, there are certain things you should never do for a woman.
While it might feel like you are doing the right thing, and women will usually accept these behaviors, they won't feel attracted to you for them.
You will feel better about yourself, and she will respect you more, if you avoid these seven traps.
1. Soften Your Masculinity to Make Her Like You
Women are naturally attracted to masculinity.
It is the sexual polarity created when there is a clear masculine and feminine difference that triggers primal attraction.
Many guys soften their masculinity and act "innocent" or "gentle" to seem less threatening.
However, if you come across a strong, direct woman and you become intimidated or "soft," she will lose interest.
A strong woman wants to see that you are man enough to handle her energy without shrinking.
2. Try to Win Her Over With Gifts or Financial Favors
A woman will accept gifts, expensive holidays, and paid bills, but she won't truly love or respect you for them.
She senses the insecurity of a man who thinks he has to buy a woman's heart.
If you are insecure and buy an expensive gift, she feels pity; if you are confident and buy a gift, she is attracted to your confidence.
Gifts do not cause attraction; your non-physical traits do.
3. Seek Her Approval to Feel Good Enough
Seeking approval means constantly checking her reactions to see if she likes what you are saying or doing.
This often looks like asking, "Are you having fun?" on a date just so you can feel validated.
A man who doesn't seek approval simply rolls with the experience and displays attractive traits.
When you seek her acceptance, she senses emotional weakness and a lack of leadership.
4. Base Your Confidence on Her Reactions
If you feel nervous because she isn't showing a lot of interest, you are giving her all the power.
Women are not wired to help men feel confident; you have to provide that for yourself.
If your confidence ebbs and flows based on her mood, she assumes you will be a reactive, unstable partner in a relationship.
5. Avoid Creating Sexual Tension to "Be Nice"
Many guys talk to women in a purely neutral, friendly way because they think being sexual is "rude."
Without sexual tension, a romantic relationship cannot exist—it stays a friendship or a forgettable date.
Women are more passive and expect the man to lead by flirting and creating a sexual vibe.
Don't be apologetic about your desire; it is what makes the interaction smooth and natural rather than awkward.
6. Try to Earn Her Desire Through Good Behavior
"Nice guys" often get bitter because they treat a woman well and get rejected.
Doing the dishes or being respectful are good things, but they do not cause sexual desire.
Desire is triggered by boldness, confidence, and the risk-taking involved in flirting and physical touch.
Bad boys get results because they are brave enough to trigger that desire, even if they don't treat the woman perfectly.
Ideally, you should be a man who treats her well and knows how to make her feel desire.
7. Treat Her Beauty as More Valuable Than You
A woman’s beauty is valuable, but it doesn't make her a more valuable human than you.
Men often value physical appearance most, but women value traits like bravery, confidence, and assertiveness.
If you act like she is "out of your lead" because she is pretty, she will take that power, but she won't feel attracted to you.
She wants a man who sees his own value and understands that his emotional strength is just as valuable as her beauty.
Stop Settling for Rejection
If you display unattractive traits, you will suffer the consequences: rejection, getting dumped, or being stuck in the friend zone.
But when you display the traits that naturally trigger attraction, women respond to you automatically.
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