7 Signs a Younger Woman is Attracted to You

^{By Dan Bacon, founder of Master Attraction}

Not all women want to have sex or a relationship with a man who is the same age as them.

Sometimes a woman will like a guy who’s a bit older than her.

Sometimes she’ll like a guy who’s a lot older than her.

Sometimes she’ll like guys who are the same age as her or even younger.

In this video, I’m going to talk about seven signs that a younger woman finds you attractive.

What I mean by a younger woman is a woman who is 18 to 25.

For a guy who’s a lot older who watches this video—say for example he’s 60—he might be thinking of a woman who’s 25 to 35.

But most men who are interested in younger women are usually going to be thinking of a woman between 18 to 25.

So, what are some of the signs that a younger woman finds you attractive and is actually looking at you as a potential lover or boyfriend?

1. She tries to impress you

Suddenly, she’ll start telling you about what she’s accomplished in life, or how mature she is for her age, or that people say she’s an old soul.

That’s not just conversation.

It’s her trying to sell herself to you.

When a woman is interacting with a man who is older than her and she feels attracted to him, she will sometimes worry that he may think that she’s too young and inexperienced for him.

She’s only 22 or 21 and he may be 35.

She feels very attracted to him, but worries that he probably just sees her as a young, inexperienced girl who doesn’t really know much about life and isn’t going to be that fun to hang around with.

She then will feel the urge, she’ll feel motivated to tell him things about herself that hopefully show him that she’s mature, she’s experienced, she’s worldly, she’s an old soul, so he can then look at her as being more of a match for him.

2. She mentions her experience with older men

She might bring up the fact that she’s dated older men or finds them attractive and that’s her subtle way of saying "I’m open to you."

She’s trying to get rid of what you may think is a problem, and that being the age barrier.

She’s trying to say to you that she likes older guys, she finds older men attractive, or that her ex was older than her.

By the way, that’s a big mistake that a lot of older men make when they’re interacting with younger women.

They feel like it’s wrong for an older man to be with a younger woman.

If you don’t know who I am (I'm Dan Bacon), the woman that I’ve settled down with—I met when she was 20 and I was 35.

Prior to that, I enjoyed my choice of women and I was with women who were older than me at times.

But for the most part, I preferred women who were between 20 and 25 years old, and it wasn’t a problem.

When I was 32, for example, I was with a 21-year-old and she wanted to settle down.

But I wasn’t ready yet. I was still enjoying my choice of women.

When I met the woman that I settled down with, I just felt like stopping and I haven’t ever changed.

The thing is, now when I interact with women who work as a cashier or waitress, I don’t feel like it’s wrong that the younger woman is finding me attractive.

Some guys will interact with a woman who is a lot younger than them and they’ll be thinking, well it might be creepy if her and I feel attracted to each other.

Throughout human history, women who have been that age—say 21, 22—have been with men who are a lot older than them and it has been completely normal.

Additionally, it happens all over the world every day in today’s world.

Many people just don’t like to talk about it because some older women try to shame men into not feeling attracted to younger, attractive women.

They don’t want those men to ignore them and go for younger, attractive women.

They want to hopefully shame men into thinking that they have to get with a woman who’s the same age as them or even older than them and then they’ll be accepted by society.

The reality is that women can feel attracted to men who are the same age as them, who are younger than them, who are older than them and a lot older than them.

No one complains about that.

But men often get shamed into thinking that they have to get with a woman who’s the same age or even older than them in today’s world.

All over the world, young, attractive women find older men attractive and it’s not weird or creepy.

What is creepy is when an older man is looking at a younger woman and he’s being really creepy about it.

He’s sort of enjoying looking at her and she doesn’t feel attracted to him and he’s just enjoying it to please himself, even though it's making her feel uncomfortable.

That’s creepy.

Yet, if an older man is interacting with a woman and she can sense that he is confident, that he’s unashamed of his masculinity, that he has social intelligence when he’s talking to her—she’s naturally going to feel attracted to him.

She’s going to feel attracted to his confidence and masculinity and also his emotional maturity.

The fact that he seems like he has his crap together.

He’s not a confused young boy, a confused young guy who doesn’t really understand how the world works or understand how women think or how they react to men.

Instead, he understands women.

He’s had some experience with women.

He understands how they work.

He understands how they think.

It doesn’t throw him off.

He feels confident around them.

He feels secure in his masculinity.

He knows that it’s fine, it’s okay, it’s good to be a man.

It’s not wrong.

It’s not shameful to be a man and it’s fine to interact with a woman and make her feel girly and feminine in comparison to your masculinity.

You don’t have to make women feel like they’re the same as you.

You can make women feel girly and feminine in comparison to your masculinity.

When you do that, a younger woman will feel attracted to you, whether you’re 20, 30, 40, 50, or 60.

She is feeling attracted to the fact that you have the type of masculinity that makes her feel girly and feminine in comparison to you.

Something to point out here is that you may have come across guys who are a lot younger than you who are very secure in their masculinity.

Sometimes, even a boy—he’ll be 12 or 13 years old—will be interacting with a man who’s 30 and the boy will be more masculine than the 30-year-old man.

He’ll be more secure in his masculinity.

He’ll be unashamed of being manly in the way that he can at that age.

He’ll be confident.

The older man who’s say 30 will be insecure, soft, emotionally sensitive.

He’ll be ashamed of being manly.

He’ll have had his manliness beaten out of him by watching mainstream TV or overhearing something that a woman said or he watched a TikTok video and a woman said something and therefore his whole reality has changed.

Now he thinks that it’s wrong to be a man, it’s wrong to be manly, you’ve got to be soft and delicate and be more soft, be more neutral, be like women or give women all the power and just hope that they take pity on you.

That’s not what works.

When a young, attractive woman comes across a man who hasn’t been brainwashed by what is going on out there and can actually be a man, be unashamed to be a man, she feels that.

That turns her on.

She can’t help but feel attracted to that.

Throughout human history, women have been attracted to and have had sex and relationships and gotten married to men who are a lot older than them and it’s not a problem.

It still happens in today’s day and age.

We’ll get on to the third sign now, but I wanted to add that in for you because it’s pointless to know the signs that a younger woman is attracted to you if you feel ashamed of it.

If you think that it’s wrong when it’s not wrong.

It’s normal.

It happens all over the world every day and it’s not a problem.

3. She initiates or continues physical contact

For example, she touches your arm during a laugh or she stands closer than needed and is kind of rubbing against you or bumping against you quite often or is just body to body.

Or she finds an excuse to make physical contact in some way.

If a younger woman is interacting with an older man and she doesn’t feel attracted to him, she’ll usually try to avoid physical contact.

Especially if the guy is creepy or insecure or nervous, she doesn’t want to give him the wrong idea because she knows that he finds her attractive.

But if a younger woman is interacting with an older guy and she laughs at something he says and she touches his arm, that’s an attraction signal.

She knows what she’s doing.

She’s aware that if she touches a guy, she is showing that physical interest.

If a woman isn’t interested in a guy sexually, she will usually avoid touching the guy.

She doesn’t want to give him the wrong idea.

Likewise, if she’s standing way closer than she needs to be when talking to you, that is a sign that she is comfortable being that close to you.

If she wasn’t attracted to you or if a woman is creeped out by a guy who is older than her and being creepy, then she wouldn’t be standing that close.

So if a woman is standing very close to you to the point where your bodies are rubbing against each other quite often or she touches you during the conversation or she continues physical contact if you initiate it or even if she touches you back if you have touched her, then it’s a clear sign that she is comfortable with physical contact happening between you and her.

4. She tries to get your attention by laughing a lot louder or by being a lot more energetic and bubbly when you are nearby

The laughing louder example is a bit of a weird one that women do.

They will often become quite loud and bubbly when men are nearby because they hope that it results in the men coming over and talking to them and making something happen.

They often don’t realize that most men feel intimidated by that.

If women are hanging out in a group and they’re being loud or silly or bubbly and they’re making a lot of noise and they seem to be really having a lot of fun together, a lot of men feel like they’re not going to be able to go in there and match that energy.

How am I going to go in there and talk to them now because they’re all bubbly and excited and being giddy and so forth?

What am I going to do?

What you need to know as a man is that you don’t have to go in there and be like them.

If you’re in a really good mood and you’re upbeat and you can go in there and match that energy, then great.

Make sure that you’re not behaving like them and being one of the girls.

However, if you’re not in an upbeat, bubbly type of mood and you’re just chill, you can go in there and start talking to them in a confident, masculine way and they will turn their attention towards you and they will enjoy that.

As long as you’re not being a downer.

If a guy goes in there and he’s extremely chill and just can’t be bothered really saying anything and they’re enjoying themselves, they will usually get bored by that and feel a bit restless.

But if a man can go into the interaction and be chill but have a bit of positivity to him in his presence and maybe even a subtle smile when he’s talking to them, then they’re going to see that okay, he’s not bringing the energy of the group down, but he’s also not being one of the girls now.

Thinking that he needs to go in there and behave like them.

Instead, he’s maintaining his masculinity.

It’s very important as a man to remember to not be ashamed of being a man and to also remember that women want to be able to feel your masculine presence.

That turns them on.

They like that.

That doesn’t mean that a guy should be emotionless or act like he’s really tough and go into a situation like, "Yeah, I’ll show them how masculine I am."

They’re not going to like that and they’re not going to feel attracted to it because they’re going to sense that it’s an act.

They will test the guy by being difficult and playing hard to get and they’ll notice then that he becomes insecure or frustrated and walks away.

You don’t need to put on an act when talking to women.

Instead, if you can go into an interaction and just be confident and masculine and chill or confident, masculine and easygoing and just have a bit of positive energy as you start the interaction and continue it, then you’re good.

Women can then sense that you’re not putting on an act of being a tough guy and being really alpha and so forth.

Instead, they can see that you’re a cool, easygoing guy.

You’re confident and as a result, they enjoy that.

They welcome that into the interaction.

A lot of younger women don’t realize that them laughing louder when the guy that they are attracted to is nearby intimidates a lot of guys.

A lot of guys don’t see that as a sign of attraction.

A lot of guys just think, well, she’s laughing a lot louder now because she’s enjoying herself or maybe she’s trying to show me that she’s having more fun without me and I shouldn’t go and talk to her.

A lot of guys get confused by it.

In the woman’s mind, she’s trying to show the guy that she is a fun, bubbly, feminine woman and she then expects that he is a man and he’s going to have the confidence and masculinity to be able to come over and talk to her and not be intimidated by her.

Women usually just expect and assume that men aren’t going to be intimidated by them.

What they often experience is that men are intimidated.

Men do feel insecure and that then results in awkwardness in the interaction.

The woman doesn’t really know what’s going on.

Why isn’t it working out?

Why isn’t it flowing?

She can’t figure it out.

5. She flirts in a subtle way to let you know she’s feeling it

This is about a discreet understanding between the two of you that you and her are finding each other sexually attractive and that it’s possible that you and her are going to have sex now.

It’s very subtle body language that happens and most guys who see that sort of vibe between a man and a woman where they’re looking at each other and there’s a subtle understanding between them that they find each other attractive and she’s doing it too—most guys will look at it and think, well maybe she just finds him physically attractive or maybe he’s her type and that’s why it has happened.

He doesn’t realize that you can actually create that vibe with a woman.

There’s so many ways to flirt with a woman that make her feel sexually attracted and turned on.

When you do that, she then starts to look at you and give you that sort of look where it’s on between you and her.

She’s feeling it.

Specifically with a younger woman and older man, she will do that as a way of showing him that she doesn’t have a problem with the fact that him and her are feeling attracted to each other.

She’s cool with it.

She can handle it.

She can flow with that.

She’s down for it.

If she wasn’t down for it, she would avoid that type of body language.

She would avoid that type of discreet understanding.

She would avoid giving him any type of indication that she is feeling it.

If you’re interacting with a younger woman and she is giving you that sort of sign, she wants to let you know that she’s not looking at you as just a friend.

She’s feeling it.

She’s feeling sexually attracted to you.

There’s that tension between you and her.

There are sparks between you and her and something can happen.

6. Her voice gets softer, more playful or flirty

This is where she changes her tone of voice around you.

In most cases, it’s not a conscious thing that a woman does.

Instead, it’s an instinctive reaction.

She’s feeling attracted to you and as a result, she then wants you to feel more attracted to her.

She starts turning on her charms.

For her, that may mean that she becomes softer and more sultry in her voice or she becomes more flirty or more playful.

She will adjust how she’s talking to you—the tone of her voice—in order to hopefully make you feel more attracted to her.

Whereas if a younger woman is interacting with an older man that she doesn’t find attractive, she will usually just talk to him in a neutral way.

Unless she just wants to tool him.

She wants to mess with him in the moment.

She notices that he’s insecure, that he finds her attractive, that he’s hoping to get a chance with her and she’s just playing with how attractive she is.

She wants to see how uncomfortable she can make him, how much she can make him show interest in her, how much she can get him to chase her during the interaction and so on.

But if you’re a man who is confident and you know how to make women feel attracted, and she’s feeling attracted to you in the moment and she then starts to adjust her tone of voice to be more attractive to you, then it’s a sign that she is attracted to you and she wants you to like her more.

7. She smiles after you tease or challenge her

If you playfully tease a woman using what I call playfully challenging humor—and if you want a lot of examples of that, you can watch the lesson on humor here at Master Attraction by the way—but if you playfully tease a woman or you challenge her in the moment and then she smiles at you in response and she holds that smile and enjoys the tension between you and her, then it’s a sign that she’s feeling attracted to you.

She is enjoying the tension, the attraction that she’s feeling, the dynamic between you and her and so on.

If, for example, you tried to playfully tease a woman or challenge her and she gave you a deadpan expression or she rolled her eyes or she just gave one of those and looked away, then obviously she’s not attracted to you.

But if she’s smiling, then she’s enjoying the tension.

She’s feeling attracted to you and she’s happy to allow that moment to exist and to even encourage you because she feels attracted to you.

Therefore, you are a man that she wants and as a result she wants to be able to show you some signs of attraction, some signs of interest.

In the moment, instinctively, one of those is to smile when you playfully tease her or challenge her.

When it comes to women of any age—whether they’re younger than you, the same age or older—the solution is always the same.

What you need to do is very simple.

You’ve just got to be able to make the woman feel attracted to you.

There are so many non-physical ways to make women feel attracted to you.

When you understand how to do that, you realize that you have control.

You have power.

You’re not relying on hopefully getting lucky or hopefully the woman will go easy on you and not reject you and then not reject you in a relationship.

Instead, when you understand how to make women feel attracted to you, you suddenly have control over this area of your life.

If you want to make a woman feel attracted to you, you do that.

If you don’t want to make her feel attracted, you just talk to her in a neutral way.

She’s still going to feel some attraction to your confidence.

But if you want her to want you in a sexual and romantic way, you know so many different ways to trigger her attraction and make her want you.

By the way...

If you want my best-ever examples of what to say and do to attract women, check out my Attraction Mastery video lesson series.