5 Secrets About Women That Will Boost Your Confidence

One of the biggest reasons guys feel nervous around attractive women is that they simply misunderstand them.

For example, a guy will assume that all pretty women are confident in their attractiveness and only want really good-looking men.

Yet, that isn't the case at all.

When I figured out what most attractive women are REALLY like, it completely changed how I felt around them.

Instead of seeing them as being out of my league, I started looking at them as being normal women with insecurities, just like other women.

That made me feel more confident around them, which in turn made them feel more attracted to me.

So, to help you feel more confident around pretty women, so you can get results as well - here are 5 secrets that boosted my confidence around attractive women and allowed me to attract and sleep with them so much more easily.

1. Most Pretty Women Have Insecurities

A beautiful woman usually knows she's attractive because she gets more looks and attention than less physically attractive women.

Yet, that doesn't mean she thinks she's perfect.

Like everyone else, most pretty women have insecurities about their appearance.

For example, she may wish she had different lips because they're too thin or big, a different nose, a different body shape, better hips, or better hair.

Without those things, she feels as though she's not as pretty as other women she has seen. 

Yet she often ACTS like she is very confident and sure of herself.

Most guys believe her act and feel insecure around her as a result.

However, when you understand that most pretty women secretly have insecurities about their appearance, it's one of the things that helps you stop putting them women on a pedestal and start seeing them as normal human beings.

2. Pretty Women Don't All Want the Same Type of Guy

Many men assume that all attractive women want the same thing in a guy.

Tall.

Handsome.

Rich.

Extrovert.

Yet, that's not the case at all. 

Years before I became successful with women, I watched an introverted, scruffy, average-looking guy at work get into a relationship with the most beautiful woman in the office.

He wasn't better looking than the other guys in the office.

Instead, he simply believed he had a chance with her and acted on it.

She was impressed by his confidence and went along with it.

Prior to that, all other guys were trying hard to impress her to hopefully be liked by her, or were simply insecure and nervous around her.

Yet, the introverted, average-looking guy wasn't insecure or nervous around her. 

He didn't doubt himself and she felt attracted to that. 

Seeing it happen taught me that pretty women have different personalities, different preferences and different tastes in men.

Some definitely only want the tall, handsome, rich, extroverted man. 

Yet, they don't all want that.

Additionally, sometimes a pretty woman will want a tall, handsome man, but the only guy she meets who makes her feels attracted and then gives himself a chance, is going to be an average-looking guy.

...and she will then get with him.

So, if you want a chance with a pretty women, you have to give it to yourself and not be waiting for women to make it obvious that they want you. 

If you just look at a pretty woman and assume you wouldn't have a chance and then avoid giving yourself a shot, then you won't get anything. 

3. Women Often See You Differently Than You See Yourself

Many guys hear women describe their boyfriend as 'handsome' and assume he must look like a male model.

Then, when a man looks at him, he often sees him as being average-looking, nerdy-looking, or below-average-looking.

Why?

Most women don't judge physical appearance the same way that men do.

When a woman feels attracted to a man's confidence, humor, masculinity, or charm, she begins looking at his physical appearance more positively as well.

I've experienced this many times myself.

Beautiful women who initially wouldn't have noticed me or wanted me due to being average-looking, suddenly started liking the way I looked after they felt attracted to me for non-physical reasons.

This has also happened to members of the Master Attraction Community. 

The member above has a big nose and after attracting the woman to his non-physical traits (e.g. confidence), she said his nose was 'cute' because she was looking at him with attraction in her eyes. 

4. Playfully Challenging Her Creates Instant Sparks

One of the fastest ways to create attraction is something most guys are too afraid to do.

Playfully challenge her as you talk to her.

Most men try to be as nice as possible because they're scared of ruining their chances.

Ironically, being afraid of ruining their chances is exactly what ruins their chances.

She sees them as desperate, needy, insecure and of lower value than her, which kills her feelings of attraction.

On the other hand, when you're confident enough to playfully tease a woman or lightly challenge her, she immediately senses that you aren't desperate for her approval.

That kind of confidence, non-neediness and social intelligence is attractive.

You don't need to do it constantly, but adding playful challenges into a conversation creates instant sparks that a polite conversation never will.

5. Confidence Comes From Competence

Many guys think they need to magically become confident overnight for no reason (e.g. wake up one day and you're 10x more confident for no reason and it then remains that way for life).

It doesn't work that way.

Real confidence with women comes from knowing what you're doing when interacting with women, on dates with women and being in a relationship with a woman.

If you don't know what you're doing, you will feel insecure, incompetent and not in control.

Yet, the more you know what to do to get positive results with women, the more competent you become.

The more competent you become, the more confident you feel.

You stop wondering whether women like you.

You stop feeling insecure around women you want.

You know how to make women feel attracted.

You then do it and they feel attracted to you.

You then genuinely feel confident in your ability to attract women, rather than it being a confusing, insecure part of your life. 

As a result, you have real confidence that is based on your competence.