5 Psychological Facts About Women and Sex Every Man Should Know

If you are not aware of these psychological facts about women and sex, then you will feel insecure around women.

You will notice that they are not approaching the idea or the possibility of sex in the same way that you are.

They are not reacting in the same way as you are to them.

You are feeling attracted to them and wanting to have sex, but they kind of seem like they are neutral.

They do not even seem interested at all.

But as you will discover in this video, women do actually want to have sex.

There are certain reasons why they act like they do not want to, and you need to be aware of that so you actually get to the point of having sex with them.

1. Women Think About Sex More Than They Admit

The first psychological fact is that women think about sex more than they admit or realize.

A study found that women reported thinking about sex approximately six times a day.

However, when asked to track their thoughts using a tally counter, the average increased to 19 times per day.

The fact remains that women think about sex multiple times per day.

It is important for men to understand that because women rarely give that impression to men.

Unless a woman is very sexually forward, she will rarely make sexual references.

She will seem like she is not even interested in sex at all.

She will just be talking to a guy in a friendly, neutral way, and the guy thinks she is not interested.

Yet, there is something that you need to do in almost all cases if you want a woman to go from off mode to on mode.

2. Fear of Negative Judgment

Many women secretly do want casual sex, but decline offers for it because they are worried about being negatively judged.

Research at the University of Michigan found that women are less likely to accept casual sex offers due to their concerns about being judged.

A study at Florida State University illustrated this point perfectly.

When asked, "Would you go out with me tonight?" 56% of women said yes.

When asked, "Would you come over to my apartment tonight?" only 6% of women said yes.

But when asked, "Would you go to bed with me tonight?" 0% of women said yes.

The woman is worried about how she is going to be judged, even though she may want to have sex.

She worries if the man is actually going to respect her or if he is going to think she was too easy.

She wants to be seen as a valuable woman that he may want to get into a relationship with.

When a man asked her if she wanted to go out with him, she was much more likely to say yes because that could lead to sex without her directly saying yes to it.

3. Hormonal Cycles Influence Sexual Desire

Another psychological fact about women and sex is that her hormonal cycles influence her sexual desire for you.

A woman's sexual interest, mood, and energy levels fluctuate throughout the month.

Many women feel more flirtatious and sexually motivated around the time where they ovulate.

This happens because certain hormones are increasing in her body.

In other times of the month, she will have less libido and she will become more emotionally sensitive.

For a lot of guys, that will confuse and frustrate them when they are in a relationship with a woman.

One day she is really interested and happy, but a week later she seems moody and disinterested.

It is important that you understand this because for us men, our hormones remain the same throughout the month.

Testosterone is essentially a straight line, which is a lot different than the roller coaster women experience.

As a man, you need to be aware of these things so you do not take it personally.

Don't get on her roller coaster, but instead remain on a consistent flat line.

She does not want you to feel insecure and emotionally sensitive just because she is less interested in sex for a few days.

4. Approximately 70% of Women Experience Responsive Sexual Desire

Most women experience responsive sexual desire rather than spontaneous desire.

This means that women often do not need to feel desire before sex begins.

Many women only feel it once they are already aroused and things have started.

Initially at the start of a relationship, a woman may initiate because it is all new and exciting.

But for some women, they won't have strong sexual urges unless the man actually makes them feel turned on.

If women felt the same spontaneous desire as men do, people would be getting it on in the streets.

This mechanism is built into nature because it makes the family unit possible.

If women immediately said yes to sex with any man they found attractive, you would not be able to have committed relationships.

If you understand that women have this type of desire, then you will know that a woman will want to have sex with you if you make her feel aroused.

But if you are just waiting for women to show obvious interest, you are probably going to be waiting a very long time.

5. Flirting is a Secret Language

Women use flirting to express sexual interest rather than saying that they want sex.

Flirtatious facial expressions and behaviors allow women to communicate interest while keeping a buffer of safety.

Women are interested in sex, but they can't directly say it, so they flirt instead.

They give you subtle signals that they are interested in you sexually.

You need to be able to notice those signals and you also need to be able to flirt with the woman back.

Flirting is a way to communicate your sexual interest in each other in a playful, non-serious way.

It is a subtle, discreet language that men and women use to say they find each other attractive without risking rejection.

It is like a safe zone where you can show interest without worrying.

For many guys, they do not even have the confidence to walk over and talk to a woman or be confident when they are talking to her.

You have to display the type of non-physical traits that make women feel sexually attracted.

Once you have the confidence to actually shoot your shot, you can continue to believe in yourself and feel worthy of the woman.

You most likely have seen other guys getting results and wondered what they are doing differently.

They are simply using a mindset that makes them stand out and triggers a woman's desire.

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