5 Best Places to Meet Women Without Dating Apps

If you do not want to compete with tens of thousands of other men on a dating app for the same woman, and you want a one-on-one chance, then you have to meet women in person.

Meeting women in the real world has always been the best way to do it.

I am going to give you five of the best ways to meet women in person.

The second one on the list actually has more women than men, so it is even a lot easier.

But the first one on the list has to be included, because it has always worked and it continues to work.

It is a place where attractive women go, and they dress up because they are hoping to meet a man.

In this environment, approximately 95% of the women are going to be single.

1. Bars and Lounge Environments

The first place on the list is bars, specifically lounge bars, cocktail bars, and bars with bouncers.

When a bar has a bouncer, they usually manage the ratio to ensure there are more women than men.

Personally speaking, many of the women that I met and slept with before settling down, I met in bars.

It is a place where attractive women are often waiting to be approached.

As long as you can create a spark of attraction by being confident and present, she will usually open up to the conversation.

I used to take guys of all types out to bars, including shy guys and average-looking guys, and about 80% of women were friendly and open.

If you are just being cool and social rather than trying hard to pick up, the window of opportunity opens even further.

You do not need to pick up every woman in the world, but most women will feel attracted to you if you display the right non-physical traits.

2. High-Ratio Hobby Classes

The next one on the list is where there will usually be a higher ratio of women to men, and that is hobby classes.

Examples include dance classes, cooking workshops, painting classes, and photography courses, or other courses that women are typically more interested in than men.

Many guys would rather play video games or do martial arts, but if you want to be around mostly women, you have to go against your own grain.

Dance classes, especially salsa dancing, are great because you are body-to-body with a woman.

Women in these classes are happy for you to lead them and be playful with your body language.

When you attend, make sure you have a genuine desire to participate and enjoy the activity.

If you are just scanning the room hoping women like you, they will pick up on that desperate energy.

But if you are there having a good time and being social, their guard will come down and they will feel much more comfortable with you.

3. Speed Dating and Singles Events

With speed dating, you may not always meet the most attractive women in the city, but every woman there is specifically looking to meet a man.

It is a one-on-one interaction where you have dates one after the other.

This is a great way to build momentum and start feeling more confident in your ability to talk to women.

At a singles night, women are usually a lot more open and willing to show interest because everyone knows why they are there.

In a regular bar, an attractive woman might pretend she is only there to hang out with friends.

But at a speed dating event, she cannot hide behind that excuse, so she is often more willing to make something happen.

If you want a woman, you usually have to step up to the plate and be the one to move things forward.

4. Language Exchange Events

If you live in a big city, there will be women looking to talk to men who speak your language so they can practice.

You can search for a language exchange event in your city and find women who are actively trying to speak to someone.

These women are often tourists or students who have just moved to town, and they are frequently looking for a local to show them around.

If you are a confident and charming guy, you can make instant friends and arrange to go out to a bar on a Friday night.

You can even have fun with a translation app on your phone to say flirtatious things or ask her how to say "cheeky woman" in her language.

It gives you a built-in activity and a natural reason to keep the conversation flowing.

5. Through Friends and Social Circles

Meeting women through friends is one of the best ways to do it, but many guys have friends who do not know any attractive women.

You can fix this by taking up a hobby that has mostly men, like martial arts, and making new friends there.

Alternatively, you can find a wingman who is also learning how to trigger sexual attraction in women.

Going out with a wingman is much easier than going out alone, because you have someone there to help maintain your motivation.

As you and your wingman get phone numbers and kisses, you will gradually have more women in your life who invite you to parties.

Rather than being a stranger, you will be seen as a friend of the group, which makes the initial interaction much easier.

However, you still need to know how to trigger attraction so that you do not get placed in the friend zone.

If you do not know how to trigger sexual attraction, they will not feel it for you in almost all cases.

Mastering the Art of Attraction

Whether you are in a loud bar or a quiet art class, the most important thing is how you are coming across.

Women do not expect a serious, in-depth conversation in a loud bar; they just want to see if you can make them feel attracted.

You need to have the confidence to ask for her phone number or move in for a kiss when the moment is right.

Once you learn how to display the non-physical traits that make women want you, you can enjoy your choice of women.

You might want to enjoy being single for a few years, or you might just want to find one pretty woman to be your girlfriend.

The ability to attract women is a skill that you can learn and use for the rest of your life.

Stop relying on dating apps and start meeting the high-quality women who are waiting for you in the real world.

Your life can change the moment you decide to step up and take the lead.

Take the first step today by learning exactly what to say and do to make a woman feel an instant spark for you.

Success with women is not about luck; it is about knowing how to trigger the right emotions.

If you want to know exactly how to trigger the emotion of attraction inside a woman, check out my Attraction Mastery video lesson series. 

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